My boyfriend text girls

The other day my boyfriend was receiving multiple text from a girl. the text were mostly talking about her short shorts and the problems she has been having with her current boyfriend. (yes I went through his phone, but it just kept vibrating and I didn't know if maybe it was something important) after confronting him about it I found that she was an ex girlfriend of his. So now he takes his cell phone every where he goes, he even sleeps with it under his pillow! Should I be worried or just trust that nothing will happen?

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  • Chattic

    Oh hell no! Ex's can't be friends unless if they still have feelings for each other! He shouldn't hide his phone from you at all and worst of all, he didn't inform you about her, especially about the ex part... Smh you should confront him and tell him what's going on there! Dont be fooled...

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    • LadyInLace

      I agree

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  • Sunshinelolliepops

    Speaking from experience...If they haven't done anything yet they will if you continue to let them txt each other. He knows it is wrong and that is why he is hiding his phone! Put your foot down now and tell him you don't want him associating with her any more. If he respects you and if it there is nothing going on between them he will drop her like a hotcake because you mean alot more!!!

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  • chatter289

    Yes he is def hiding something. You need to sit down and tell him that what he is doing is wrong and thats its very disrespectful and if he does not continue to stop the relationship will end. and ex should stay in the past. Ex's can bring old flames back regardless of what the break up entailed.

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  • LadyInLace

    Don't listen to anyone on here who is telling you that he should dump you and that you're in the wrong. You SHOULD definitely be worried especially because it's an ex and they are talking about her short shorts and her current relationship? Fuck that, seriously. I would have been gone already. He sounds like he either is cheating, plans on it, or enjoys flirting with an ex, which still is bullshit. Why is he even texting his ex? Old feelings can easily come back... And now that he's got his phone attached to him and he didn't before( that's what it seems like), then he is probably hiding something. Tell him that you don't feel comfortable with that, and you want him to stop, and if he doesn't, then break it up. I've seen this happen with people before and it only hurts them more in the end....

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  • IrishPotato

    He takes it everywhere and sleeps with it under his pillow because you violated his privacy. It's normal to have friends you talk to, even ex's.

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  • Bigmac69

    Cheating obviously hiding something if he wasn't why wouldn't he let you go through his phone if everythings ok

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  • He takes his mobile phone everywhere? Oh God! Seems like he's...An average person with a mobile phone.
    How do you know what he is texting? Looking through his things that he is sending to someone that is most likely a friend? Looking at his private things? He needs to kick you to the curb (dump you).

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    • Talk_is_cheap

      Completely agree..

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  • jitterbug66

    Maybe they're "just friends". That's what most couples do when they break up. Stop being so worried about him.

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    • Mmmpfh

      I wouldn't say most couples remain friends. Some do, but for others it just gets in the way of future relationships.

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      • LadyInLace

        True I have seen this happen. Happened to me too( I wasn't dating someone though) I don't think being friends with an ex is a good idea

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  • there would be an ultimatum then a period of loneliness then another boyfriend

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