My boyfriend sucks at kissing, what do i do?

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My boyfriend is a great guy and I absolutely adore him. But he's just a terrible kisser. Kissing is probably one of the things I love to do most when it comes to being close and intimate. However, kissing him is a HUGE turn off. He's really bad at it. I mean he's only had one girlfriend before and so I guess that explains why. Our first kiss literally consisited of him sticking his tongue into my mouth and going at it lol. When I told him to slow down in the most polite way that I could, he told me that he can't control his tongue and isn't even aware that he uses tongue. I don't know what to do because I just do not like kissing him and he actually already knows he sucks at it.
What the hell do I do? What do I do?

Teach him how to kiss 138
Just go with it (even though you don't like it) 14
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  • Faceless
    9 years ago

    Bite his lips off!

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    • dirtybirdy
      9 years ago

      If that happened to you, you'd have to change your name to Lipless.

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  • sexysonofsam
    9 years ago

    Tell him he has to improve his technique and explain to him what works for you. Also tell him if he is not into kissing there will be no nooky until you are aroused by his kisses.

    Motivation is the best teacher!

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  • TrustMeImLying
    9 years ago

    You could try fishy kisses for a while. Cant stick a tongue through that!

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  • DarQness
    9 years ago

    practice makes perfect. like hamster said, maybe you should take the lead. if he knows he is a bad kisser i'm sure hes willing to get better at it. some people are just to quick to give up on someone. and the person is never given the chance to get better with the other person because that other person didn't want to practice until the other person got better.

    its happened to me before, was great with my ex, but when moving on, this other woman and i got together, went pretty fast. she decided i wasn't the one, she said i seemed kind of submissive. which is bullshite. and funny thing is, we became best friends. lol, i didn't think she was a good kisser, she was big time open mouth, when i was kissing her, all i was getting was open mouth and tongue. it was weird.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    I've been told I am horrible at kissing as well. Just tell him how to do it better.

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  • ScooterNyne
    9 years ago

    my girlfriend says im bad at it too. But she doesnt care and I apparently get better everytime we see eachother. so she says anyway lol

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  • Shackleford96
    9 years ago

    Get him a book and force him to read it. Maybe he'll learn some technique.

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