My boyfriend still sends txt messages to his ex!

Hes a piece of shit you may as well dump him now and get it over with. I would bust him on his text messages. Sounds like he might already be tappin her puss anyways behind your back. Next time he comes in the door I would smell his dick. Don't be surprised if you smell her cooch on his nutz. I hope not but it might happen. Let him have her back and then send a vid of you fucking someone else. See how he feels then. If you think his dick is small now wait till he sees that homemade porno you make.

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Really And Truely I Think It's Just An Infactuation. Doesn't Sound Like Love

Simple way to put it.

HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU.

You are his security, his replacement, his comfort zone till he can get his ex back.

You can tell he loves you by the way he treats you and gets upset when you argue?

Him texting his ex saying he loves her and wants her back, is disrespecting you, lying to you, and in a form of cheating on your relationship.

News flash sweet heart, that is treating you badly. He just has learned to keep it from you.

He's a fake babe.

Its kinda like a child molester.
They were nice to be when they showed me the puppy, I just don't know what happened.

I'm sorry, because I know that it must be very disappointing, but find yourself someone who only has a heart for you.

your either not doing enough to pleasure him or he is just a *aget,(no affense gay people)

Okay, let me give you my perspective on your predicament and suggest a hands-on solution to it.
It may very well be that he liked sex with his ex-girlfriend more than with you. Maybe she used to give him superior blowjobs and allowed him to cum on her face and all the other nice stuff. How would you assess your sexual performance? There might be some room for improvement there. So I suggest that you work on that area of your relationship and see what happens. Good luck!

I'm sure by now this situation has been resolved and said parties are happily ensconsed in other relationships. For anyone who finds themself in this situation in future, if your bf / gf is telling their ex they love them and want to be with them / want them back... then ask yourself where it leaves you. If you don't mind sharing, carry on with it, but otherwise, best is to move on because YOU are the rebound lover unfortunately. I would say that it would be a waste of time to even argue over the matter or "fight for their love" because you don't have it anyway and you can't force someone to love you. Move on and out and chalk it down to experience. Sorry to the woman who found herself in this position, it's rotten when somebody does something like this; it's horrid to be that pretentious and to lie straight to somebodies face, telling them you love them when you don't.

I would slap that boy into next week and dump his ass. He doesn't love you. He just wants pussy.

He is obviously laying you ,the reality is he would not text his ex if it was you he was only interested in. Maby he wants his cake and eat it. If she does not return his advances he wat,s you waiting in the sidelines or he is playing you both for some ego trip due to his childish insecurities. While actions do speak alot and he treats you well you do need to talk to him about this and trust me I would be insecure about this ,for two seconds before I dumped his confused ass. You can either find out what is going on or find somebody that deserves you and has only you on his love agenda,you deserve to be number one. Maby when you make him an ex he will be sending the same types of texts to you lol.

Comfort him. If he acts all tongue tied or panic dump him! Cheaters can't be choosers. He may be acting sweet to you and making it out like he loves you. I bet he does don't get me wrong. But in NO WAY should he be texting his ex that stuff.
xoxo Queen B.

Good Lord child, listen to yourself, "i no he loves me and wants to be with me becuze of the way he treats me." He treats you as a surrogate and begs his ex to get back with him behind your back. He lies to you and is probably cheating on you or actively planing to cheat on you. How is any of that treatment good? Dump your two timing, douchebag boyfriend and start paying attention in English class!!! You want to meet quality guys and quality guys won't wanna bring a girl who can't spell and has bad grammar home to meet his mother. Now if you just wanna get used and thrown away keep doing what you're doing. Also just because someone gets really upset at you when you argue doesn't mean that they love or care about you. If anything a bad temper should be a red flag that says "RUN." By any chance do your parents treat each other like this? This isn't normal and or loving behavior it's more like scummy, selfish behavior.

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If you're sure he's cheating on you, dump him. also, you seem too concerned with having a boyfriend. I like being single, so it's hard for me to relate to the drama of wanting a bf/gf really bad.

lol guys...this post is over 2 and a half years old.

This is a very black and white situation, girl! Texts to ex saying I love/miss you and want you back = doesn't love you. Someone who REALLY loves you won't do things like that. Period!

BOYS ARE BOYS...based from what you wrote here..he seems to be playin like a highschooler and so excited to be mingling with many girls... tsk tsk.

But in a relationship even if you love a certain person...You know when it is not right. you feel it when it is not right. :) and in the right relationship, even though its not perfect, there should be no complications. :)

Don't walk. Run.

Just went through a similar situation, boyfriend was talking to his ex. Was told "It's normal, they're from the same hometown, their lives are so intertwined because they grew up together." He would text her and me being the good girlfriend would respectfully not read them, I mean, my ex's call me occasionally (like once every six months)so it might not have been a big deal. It was. He was cheating on me. She felt like he cheated on her because she didn't know we were together.

If he's still telling her he loves her, he needs to go.

Another option is to get to know the ex-girlfriend. But its also manipulative. I'd just dump the guy.

your dumb. He obvioiusly wants both of you. Either you accept it or dump his ass. but he obviously doesn't love you or her. He just wants to play both of your dumb asses. and your letting him.

boys always like this

This guy is not your boyfriend, or rather you are not his only girlfriend.

Confront him and then leave!
He is not worth it, he is clearly still in love with his ex.

I was dating a guy i thought would NEVER cheat on b.c of how he treated me and all the things he said. and when i broke up with him, he cryed.. pretty bad.. made me believe it even more. but about 9 months later i find out that in did cheat on me... so... yeah, it can happen even when you think it wont.
but anyway, if i saw that, id confront him right away. what he's doing is wrong, i honestly dont even see why you're still with him if he's doing that

Dump him Im free

dump him. dont be stupid.

He doesn't love either of you. That much is clear. However deeply you feel, or however superficial your relationship may or may not be, there is an accountable level of deception. Terminate the relationship or be prepared to accept your mutual damage.

The I love you part to his ex is kinda weird..

hes a prick.
end it!

why does it bother if he does so?
he wants get back in his ex's pants as well as hold on to the comfortable stay in urs too.

enjoy life,ur having him when u want to. so just be grateful and not greedy and deprive other people...not necessarily they will be reuniting. u just make it up...our mind preconcieve all this bullshit.

don't see no problems,won't have no tension

its always the way u percieve things

hi there, i will say that enjoying weed is not bad but thinking toomuch is bad, as usally we think normal but when we have something else like weed, we start thinking more which is really not good its better if you dont think much when you enjoying that. i heard somesays that too much of anything is not good.

poor deluded girl...

just because he treats you well and get upset when you fight doesn't mean he loves you... i do it with my sister, yet i don't love her like a girlfriend...

Dump him. He sounds like an asshole.

Lol.
I bet hes cyber sexing up his ex.

I would throw him to the curb.
Thanks a bunch for your pathetic time!

i think he might be confused about how he wants to be with him u might have to ask him who he loves and give him a choice if u txt ur ex back it will be the end of it and will be over .u dont need to feel insecure in a relationship anyways hope this helps good luck

lol thx to some of u u have made my day!

The fact he has to say he won't cheat on you makes me think he's questioning it. If he's saying he wants his ex back he either wants to date both of you or he's going to leave you for his ex. I assume he doesn't know you know about the txt, you should do something about it before he hurts you more than he is.

im not in highschool thankx

I was going to answer this serious but after seeing the way you typed it I can tell your nothing more then a child worrying about some stupid highschool relationship. Grow up.

i would be very insecure, my ex had a girlfriend & he use to always texting me saying he still had feelings. everytime they broke up we would hangout and when they got together again he contiued to text me saying wed be together in the future. i finally told the girl the truth because it started making me feel guily and i felt like i needed to talk to her to learn my lesson. honestly girl he proly doesnt want her back i believe he loves you but he is just keeping her around as a rebound, or just using her to do sexual things if he really loved her he would have left you by now. but you deserve to be treated better.