My boyfriend shows no emotions.

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Me and this guy started going out about 3 weeks ago.. I really like him and all but he shows little to no emotions. He says that he loves me, but I highly doubt he truly loves me. We just got out of a scare that I was pregnant with one of his friends baby, but now we know I’m not (because I used to go out with his friend) Me and him were pretty good friends before we started going out and everything. And I always ask him why he doesn’t show his emotions and he’ll just say that’s just me.. How do I deal with it? I’m so used to guys being like all lovey dovey with me. And he just won’t be that way, he isn’t with anyone. But now I feel like just another person. He is kinda weird to start off with too.
I mean his friends show more emotion towards me. Like one (who is my best friend) he like comes uo touches his cheeck against mine. Will come up behind me and cover my eyes and say “guesss whooo.” And doesn’t like it when I’m mad. When my boyfriend is like oh , I’ll leave you alone then.

Is the fact his friend shows more emotion than he does normal? Like what's his problem?

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Are you sure he's not a cyborg sent back in time to kill John Connor?

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  • Hoppy2142
    11 years ago

    And that ladies and gentlemen is why i cant find a girl, because i am emotionless and only cry, get angry, pissed off, sad or anything else while i am alone in my room letting thought after thought crash into me that i cant ever be with a beuatiful loving hearted girl, what a failure i am, so now i get a taste of a girls mind, i am one of those people, but its gonna take a lot to change me, i am the way i am, made differently then anyone and i cant change myself im not God

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    Some people are just like that. I know people like that and haven't even thought of dating them... It's not like they're going to change just cause you're going out right?

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  • OswaldCobblepot
    11 years ago

    Maybe he's a Dalek.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Well, you did dump his friend, then got with him soon after. Being emotional wasn't exactly good enough for your ex, so why would it with him?

    Anyway, I just don't get why you decided to be with someone that you don't even know if they have feelings for you or not. Shallow reasons?

    So when you are mad, he has to make a big deal over it to make you happy that he is making you being mad is a big deal...? Erm, ok.

    Still don't get why you got with someone that is not emotional to you at all in the first place, then expetc them to change for you. How conceited you sound.

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    • NeuroNeptunian
      11 years ago

      Ideal...
      Woman: I really wish my boyfriend would show more emotion and not be afraid to let out how he is feeling.
      Man: My cat died :(
      Woman: Oh I'm so sorry :(
      Man: He was my best friend *cries*
      Woman: Give me a hug, I'll lay with you all night.
      Man: *sniff sniff* Thank you :)

      Real...
      Woman: I really wish my boyfriend would show more emotion and not be afraid to let out how he is feeling.
      Man: My cat died :(
      Woman: What happened?
      Man: He got cancer and the vet had to put him down ;-;
      Woman: Oh... I'm sorry. YOU'LL NEVER GUESS WHAT THAT BITCH SHAQUAYQUAY SAID ABOUT LATOYA!

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      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago

        Goddamn I pissed myself. I think you are a goddess.

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  • PapzBSlim
    11 years ago

    Since you are his friend's ex, he might hesitate to show emotion because he does not want to be judged. Is he like this when you two are alone?

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