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I've told my boyfriend that im ready mostly anytime that he wants. Yet he seems to prefer porn. He has told me that he masturbates about 4 times a week. And yet we have sex like once every other week. He doesn't normally take initiative unless I do. IIN? Should I take it personally?
Sometimes in situations like that, they're so addicted and influenced by porn that real, normal looking, women and men do nothing for them. I'm not saying he's like this and I'm not trying to put ideas in your head. It's best to talk to him and try and get to the root of the problem.
Too much porn is bad, it gives the brain a false idea of what sex is like, all fake moans, boobs and enlarged penises
This would fit into the not normal category. The real thing with a real person always beats porn. That is unless you just so happen to be terrible in the sac. Can't hurt to say something or just to try and initiate it more. Best of luck with this one.
You should ask him why, there's always a reason. Conversation blah blah blah.
Men who pass up women for porn are losers. He probably has performance anxiety or body issues, and prefers the guaranteed satisfaction of porn over the unpredictable and vulnerable act of getting naked with another human being. Possibly he prefers this without really understanding that this is the choice he's making.
Do you live together? He should go to bed when you go to bed, and since he is meek about it simply tell him to take your clothes off. Tell him plainly what you want, and if asking doesn't do the trick then order him around. Tell him he can have all the porn he wants and you might even make some for him, but only if he fucks you first.
It doesn't necessarily make you a loser, it just means that there's a reason for it, but it may not even be your fault.
I have no interest in hooking up with anyone, but I still sometimes have watched porn lately, but I've only watched porn to look at breasts, I have not been turned on by pussies or assholes anymore, and I haven't for quite a while. And my reason for all this is I don't have the strongest sex drive. My sex drive was almost gone a couple/few months ago, and then it got a little better because I started eating healthier and tried Viagra, but that only helped things a little, only to where I went back to watching breasts in porn, but not wanting to see private parts. And, I have still not been able to get aroused by actually physically being near another human being. It hasn't mattered how attractive she is and it hasn't mattered if she's made it obvious that she wants me.
And now, my drive is getting weaker again even with healthy eating and Viagra.
I have other health problems which I know are behind this, I'm not exactly Mr. healthy and strong, far from it. It doesn't make someone a loser, it may just mean that it's health issues.
That's actually a good thing!
You're obviously craving sex while he likes masturbating.
Think about this though; the less you have sex, the less likely it is for you to get knocked up. That's right, he's saving you from dealing with a kid for the rest of your life.
Instead of complaining, you could do the same thing as well. Maybe watch porn (on separate devices) together one day. You both might enjoy it.
I have no interest in hooking up with anyone, but I sometimes watch porn. But my reason for that is that I don't have the strongest sex drive and I simply don't get aroused by actually being near another human being, it doesn't matter how attractive she is. So my point is that there are different reasons why some people would choose porn over sex.
Guy's got issues... Sex is the best thing ever.
Either talk to him, or consider finding someone who loves you emotionally and physically.
I can get hard even when I see my girlfriend do something completely unsexy and think of sex. It can be as simple as setting up the table, or dusting. The way she does it, the delicacy in her motions and femininity is a huge turn on.
I haven't watched porn since last spring, when my girlfriend was at her parents place for 2 months.
I could go either way personally but your BF sounds like he has a problem. Have you asked him about it?
Just punish him by watching porn also and telling him about how big are the penises in porn!!
You wanna be stain's girlfriend? Maybe see if he wants to watch porn and have sex at same time.
God I have to wank off heaps cause my bitch aint always in the mood :(..
I prefer sex rather the porn an miss palmer most off the time but sometimes just a quick nut bust is all I need so a quick chicken feed is more appropriate