My boyfriend pulls out and finishes on my underwear..

My boyfriend loves when I’m in my underwear which I don’t mind they are comfortable for bed But I don’t ever wear underwear throughout the day especially under leggings. If we get home and start to hook up he’ll tell me to put underwear on and get in bed. If we’re just going into missionary I’ll keep them on for foreplay until we have sex take them off and have sex normally but if he knows we’re going to be doing doggy he’ll tell me to leave them on or leave them at my knees so when he is about to cum he pulls them up and back on and then will finish on my underwear thongs bikini panties doesn’t matter he always has to pull them back up and on to cum on them. Is that weird?

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  • Boojum

    The underwear fetish is fairly common. So if you define 'weird' as something that no more than 1% of people do, then I don't think what your boyfriend does qualifies. But I also don't think it's 'normal' in the sense that the majority of guys do it. And if he can only reach orgasm if underwear is involved, then that's moving into the area of sexual dysfunction since it restricts what the two of you do.

    The most important thing here isn't how 'normal' your boyfriend's underwear fixation is. When you have sex, you're not (I assume) striving to maximise the social media likes you get or how many views your videos get. It's the two of you alone together, and the only thing that matters is that you're both happy with what you do.

    If you enjoy sex with him and his underwear thing is something you can live with, then I suggest you try to accept that's just how he's wired-up. If you find it upsets the flow of sex, that it's getting boring, that you feel he's more interested in what you wear than he is in you or if you'd like it if he sometimes came inside you or somewhere else, then I'd suggest that you talk to him about this.

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  • bigbudchonga

    You should buy some crotchless panties, he'd love those

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  • olderdude-xx

    My guess is he's trying not to get you pregnant.

    You need to tell him that you want him to cum inside of you - and to fully enjoy things.

    Also, tell him how you are avoiding pregnancy - or jointly agree that its OK if/when it happens.

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  • RoseIsabella

    That sounds hella weird. I think he should use condoms instead, because it's not unheard of for the pull out method to fail.

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