My boyfriend pays nothing !

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Well how can i start this, hmmmm, i will make it as short as poss
Iam a single divorced mom of three, two at home and one i uni, i have been seeing my boyfriend for 4 years and he moved in with us 2 years ago as he was having problems finding work and could not pay his rent, so i took him in and helped him get a job, within 6 months he had a good paying job(nurse)i said when he moved in that he could pay me back when he had a job and make reg contributions aswell, but, he has been working for over a year now and has not paid me anything and every time i bring the subject up he either says hes busy or he will pay what my older son pays(£20 a week).
I have lost all respect for him and have given all that i have to this person and he has taken me for granted for so long, i have asked him to move out and he thinks its a joke !
Iam considering moving house just to get rid of him !
Any surgestions
Apart from putting his things on the street, i would do this but he has so much iam unable to do this as i may get charged from the local council !
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  • Nokiot9
    8 years ago

    I know here in America, once you let someone live in your house, it's extremely difficult to get rid of them, from a legal stand point. Even hobos that break into places get "squatters rights". I guess it's illegal to just throw somebody out of your house. Go figure. But where you are, some of the laws are probably a little more sensible. Tell him, unless you see a REAL contribution, as $, or as chores, or as something else, you're gonna have to give him the boot. Tell him it's been over a year since he started working and he's given u less than a hundred euros. But do it delicately. Men tend to get very touchy when you say stuff about their livleyhoods and expenses and money. Be very careful you don't bake him feel belittled or he'll get defensive and shut down.

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  • bleach_baby
    13 years ago

    get a male friend or two two escort the guy out your house

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  • confuseddotcom27
    11 years ago

    I have a similar problem in that my boyfriend works but spends all his money on drugs or complete crap we don't need! We were living together at his house but 6 months ago I decided to get my own flat. He didn't like it but there was nothing he could do about it. Weve got along better since im not there to pay the bills! You need to start doing things for yourself and kids and not include him because he can't/won't contribute. He'll soon get the message. By the way... How would the council know it was stuff from your house? Just dump it a few doors away! Alternatively I think the Police would be an effective option. Good luck!

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  • jakeomaniac
    12 years ago

    Call the police. Tell them you have an intruder. Then change the locks on all your doors and windows, and get a restraining order. He's been taking advantage of you, and you deserve to have your own life.

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  • 343Boy
    13 years ago

    Sounds like you should have cut the strings awhile ago.

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  • soft789
    13 years ago

    There are for you three ways:Police-Judge. And for him:Police-Judge-Prison.Take this way.

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  • CountryRoads
    13 years ago

    Rent a trash truck if he has too much stuff. Never feel trapped in your own home...kick his ass to the curb any way you can. Go to the police station and ask what the best action to take is, theyll help you.
    He's a bum, and you're a nice person. But you need to let him go. He's a parasite...
    If it were me, I'd bag up his clothes and donate them to salvation army.

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  • Omega-Claws
    13 years ago

    Can't you call the Sheriff to help you with this problem?

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