My boyfriend needs to collect his things from an ex who does not want

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My boyfriend who was formerly my husband and I got back together and he had just broken up with a woman the previous month. We were divorced for three years and he contacted me saying he wanted to meet and that he still had strong feelings for me. Things have been great between us since we got back together but the woman he was dating did not want things to end. He had a few valuable items at her place and he needs to get them from her. She gets very emotional anytime he tries to talk to her about his stuff. She has made it clear she wants him back. Needless to say I am uncomfortable with him collecting his things under these circumstances. He says that I need to just trust him that nothing will happen when he goes to collect his things. I would appreciate any advise you have.

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  • penisdump
    8 years ago

    Is it really worth staying with him if he can't be trusted to pick up a few items without being lured into sexual intercourse?
    If you're really worried, just make sure he's not horny before he leaves. Or go with him and just wait in the car.

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  • mysistersshadow
    8 years ago

    If you can't trust him to get his stuff and not have something happen how can you trust him at all?

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    • Butrflyblue
      8 years ago

      Good point. I think that I need to take some time and just reconsider some things.

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      • mysistersshadow
        8 years ago

        Best of luck to you. :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    No wonder he left you in the first place. If a woman was insecure about me picking up my stuff from anyone's house I would be done with her in a second. If you cannot trust someone you shouldn't be with them anyways.

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  • rachelrules
    8 years ago

    Both of you are douchenozzles.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    I dunno, I kinda feel like this guy's a jerk, and you're just about to go round two with him is all. Why did ya'll breakup in the first place? Was there any cheating, and if so who was cheating? Seriously, what are you scared of here? Are you afraid she's gonna go crazy and killed him, or are you afraid he'll sleep with her?

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  • jimdog
    8 years ago

    Is this other woman more eye fetching than yourself?

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    • Butrflyblue
      8 years ago

      Not even close.

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  • IMissMary
    8 years ago

    My rule of thumb is: Never leave anything of importance over anyone's house, If a g/f starts leaving things over my house keep it all in one spot and no more than can fit into 1-plastic bag, Never leave one female for another [just switching problems],

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  • jimdog
    8 years ago

    I've been thinking more about this... Why don't you test this gentlemans loyalty, let him go then whenever he returns simply... Smell his dick, if he's been downtown you'll know, you will then be in the ideal position to launch an offensive strike directly into his penile system.

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    • Butrflyblue
      8 years ago

      Well jimdog you get the prize for the best answer yet. Lol! But maybe using the corn meal test would be better. ;)

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      • jimdog
        8 years ago

        Oh dear... You don't want to sniff my penis :(

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      • jimdog
        8 years ago

        Know what, don't even worry about it if he acts the fool I'll take you on a nice date, a fancy meal, some red wine - you can sniff my penis all you like, it smells good.

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      • jimdog
        8 years ago

        Nah that test is inconclusive..: give his penis a sniff and see where he's been! Lol

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    What? Does he have to make multiple trips or something? This should already be over.

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    • Butrflyblue
      8 years ago

      I'm not sure why he did not get his things the day he broke up. It has been a month.

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      • Arm0se
        8 years ago

        Can't you go with him?

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were.

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    • Butrflyblue
      8 years ago

      I did and he came back and seems aware of what went wrong but I guess I just don't want to deal with her drama. She knows where we both live. Thank you for your comment.

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    • BlackyHancock
      8 years ago

      There's a variation on this saying.

      It goes something like this:
      "If you love something, let it go free, if it comes back, it's yours. If it doesn't, blow it out of the sky with a double barrel shotgun."

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  • jimdog
    8 years ago

    Tell him to forget his valuables and that crazy bitch along with them. Crisis averted.

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    • Butrflyblue
      8 years ago

      I'm leaning in that direction but didn't want to cause an issue. Thank you for your response.

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      • jimdog
        8 years ago

        That slippery wench could try and seduce him, cut all ties take all loses, buy new shit.

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