My boyfriend lives with me and doesn't pay any bills... or have a car

Dump him, he's a spoiled leech and you deserve better. Don't let him back into your home when he comes back from his parents' place and it would be good if you could tell him this before he leaves, otherwise he'll be back and back getting his stuff.

What do you do? Grow up. Unfortunately this guy is going to burn you. And you'll learn from it. Just please remember to go on with your life.

He sounds like a lazyass...

Grow a backbone. You allow him to do all that shit to you.

Leave him at once! He's a douchebag.

He's using you. Tell him how you feel. If things don't improve, time to leave

What a douche, dump his ass

No, he should pay all bills and why are you living with someone without him on the rental agreement for free? Know the laws, you are cohabitating and he could refuse to move out, which would force you to pay for an eviction notice, while at the same time you could be evicted for violating your rental agreement. Plus you could get pregnant and that would suck on top of it all. You are an adult now. Do your parents know what you're doing? This is not a good situation. Do not let anyone ever take advantage of you. The law will go against you for your uninformed life choices in the worst case scenario. I'd tell him he needs to move out because you're moving or put him on the rental agreement. Bad choices have put you here, especially if you're in California, like me. And yes: I've been through everything I've mentioned while in college living with men and letting them stay with me. Worst mistakes I ever made. Stay single/don't cohabitate until you meet the man you want to marry. You have value.

unfriend him.

Now on the other hand if you're okay with a guy that is a crossdresser I enjoy helping out I enjoyed paying my part and I like really doing everything that I can to make a relationship work. Just don't get mad if I may have more lingerie than you do. But seriously though your boyfriend sounds like a lazy fuckin loser trying to skate by on his looks and his smarts to hell with that personality is to the Bone. If you don't feel appreciated loved needed wanted and all that then that's probably your female intuition telling you that listen to it I'm serious I'm a guy I know what kind of Dick we can be

What I am about to say remember this memorized this ""someone can only do to you what you allow them to do". He sounds like a spoiled little shit then they just ask it send it back to the dorm making have responsibilities and then when you choose to have him stay with you you can always kick his ass tell him to go home for the night back to his dorm he sounds like he's spoiled his mommy and daddy did everything for him paid everything for him and it sounds to me like he's going to keep that check at home until maybe you forget about it like you said he's going to spend it on himself so you need to contact his parents maybe and have them send the check to you someone that does not have to work for anything or does not have to have responsibilities will never appreciate what they do actually have to be willing to bet he is there living with you because he doesn't have to pay anything because you do everything for him and he probably gets laid every now and then too I was I would say dump him get as far away from him as you can and let him learn some responsibility on his own before you even consider letting him stay the night with you again he's like a spoiled little rich bitch he's never had to do for anything his mom and daddy do everything for him.

The guy seems like a reckless, careless, freeloading asswipe. Abandon ship!

Its all about the money.

I have a totally different opinion on this than these other people. I don't know why some other people here have been so hateful to this guy they don't even know. He sounds like a driven young man. He has a full scholarship and works hard at his sport. Yeah sure, he has gotten a couple nice cars; but that is not a lot compared to what a lot of parents wind up paying for their kids to go to college. And he has a full scholarship, so I don't see the big deal about that.

If he is a good boyfriend and you enjoy his company and he is loyal, then I I don't see any grounds to do anything too horrible here. He's in college, these years are supposed to be enjoyable and fun and people are supposed to pursue their passions. You don't have to be an adult yet (hopefully).

Now, if it is difficult for you to take him everywhere and stuff and pay for his stuff, that I understand. I think it's okay for you to let him know that it's a lot to ask and that he maybe needs to find other ways of transportation or save up some money for a cheap car or something.

I also think that as far as the bills go, it's certainly fair that he pay his fair share of water, electricity, etc... As far as rent goes?... I mean if you enjoy his company (which hopefully you do) I don't really see the need for him to pay in to it because it's not like he really adds to your rent cost... but it's fair if you would like him to pay that. I think you just need to be direct with him about it and maybe suggest he get a summer job or something. If he is blowing it off and/or lying... then yeah that is a problem. If that is the case, you need to make it clear that it is a problem to you. If he doesn't care after that, then you have to think about what you wanna do and what makes sense to you... I mean it should be somewhat obvious one way or another if he really cares or not.

Tl,dr: I understand your concerns (and all the pressure to pay for stuff shouldn't be on you) and I think you should make them known to him, but that doesn't mean he's a horrible bf or anything and I don't think you need to jump to any unnecessary actions like some other people have suggested. This is college after all, and it's not a "stable" time in a lot of people's lives financially and all that.