My boyfriend likes to hurt me during sex

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ok so my bf loves rough sex and i mean i cant blame him. he definetly knows how to use what god gave him but sometimes he hits me and i think its kinda weird but i like it at the same time. does that make me sick? to want to be hurt? sometimes i even have rape fantasies about him and i suggested it to him once and he said that we cud try it and i honestlt cant wait for it. i love the sex we have. is that normal?

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  • anya07
    13 years ago

    I wish I could be in your place.I love rough sex and my boyfriend does not.Its normal it doesnt make you sick or whatever.Rough sex turns many people on.Dont worry.If you feel comfortable with it then everything is ok

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  • xxxcupid
    13 years ago

    I have rape fantasies too

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  • Malfoy
    14 years ago

    Being naughty or wrong causes the release of adrenaline, which is closely linked to libido.
    It's pretty normal, but many people keep it a fantasy.

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  • Hippeh
    14 years ago

    It just shows that you're really comfortable with him as a partner, not something everyone has.

    Just make sure he isn't bruising you, and when you feel it's time to stop, or if he goes too far, you can end it right there and then.

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  • cruelmind88
    10 years ago

    Well my ex boyfriend that is now in prison, he was really great in bed but he was very rough during sex and I thought it was normal in a kinky way but truthfully I was scared to have sex with him cause he got very mad at me a lot but I guess I get turned on by shit like that. so to your answer, yes it's normal.

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  • Vampgirl
    13 years ago

    You say he hits you...this depends on where...does he spank you on the ass or actually hit you in the face or what? If its spanking then I think its normal and quite kinky, my husband does this and I love it but if he actually hits you then in my own personal opinion its not normal. As for the raping stuff I did it with my husband and it was fun...but do set boundaries sometimes they tend to get a little carried away!

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  • solo
    12 years ago

    R u complaining or bot I cabt tell

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