My boyfriend is weird with his visits...iin?

Whenever my boyfriend comes to visit me (which is usually everyday), he only likes to stay for a maximum of 7 hours which I know is alot but he's strict about it. He will not stay past 7 hours no matter what even if we are somewhere he will begin complaining about it. According to what he has told me, his mom will get upset if he's out for more than 7 hours. I highly doubt she will get mad because I've met her before and she doesn't seem like she would freak out over that. Anyways, in those 7 hours that we're together, he loves to just lounge around. He will play video games, be on his laptop, phone, or be watching some game. When a family member walks into the living room this is what they usually see: me on one couch, him on the other and each of us with our own laptops. If we are out eating he will constantly be checking his phone. I can always see his screen so I know what he is always looking up is the news and game scores. Believe me, he is ALWAYS on his phone when we are out shopping or at a restuarant or even playing a board game. I've asked if we can come up with a new schedule like us seeing each other not everyday but maybe every other day so we have time to miss each other but he refuses. I don't get it...he might as well be at his own house playing games, on his laptop, or his phone because that's what he would've done there anyways. I don't think he is cheating on me because he has been trying to be more transparent ever since I caught him cheating on me three times. Any thoughts about whether or not this is normal?

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  • DannyKanes

    You're with a guy who cheated on you three times and seems to have no interest in you? Sorry, I think it's time you guys went your seperate ways.

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    • Thewomanizer

      agreed! u should have kicked him to the curb after the first time he CHEATED! ONCE A CHEATER , ALWAYS A CHEATER:/

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    • ijustmakeitworse

      I've asked if he wants us to break up but he seems to be very emotionally dependent and attached to me. Not attached in a boyfriend/girlfriend way but more of a friend way. I think he's mistaking those feelings with romantic feelings but he refuses to think that way.

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      • VioletTrees

        Yeah, this is unhealthy. It sounds like you're not really getting anything out of this relationship. It doesn't matter how attached he is to you. If you're not getting enough out of it, you should dump him.

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  • wigsplitz

    The reasonable conclusion is, he gets explosive diarrhea every 8 hours and he can only poop at home.

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    • ijustmakeitworse

      Hahaha!! I wouldn't be surprised if that's the reason!

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  • Boo!

    Dump his ass. He cheated on you 3 times!! What’s the old saying person usually say at times like these, "Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me." If you stay with him you're being a fool because he sounds like a horrible person that doesn’t deserve you. Find someone who will cherish you, cheating is never acceptable. Plus, there doesn’t seem like any love involved, sounds like a moocher.

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  • neverletmego

    WAKE UP!! He cheated on you THREE times!! He obviously doesn't give a fuck about you, if he did he would want to spend every second kissing you, holding you, ect... Get out of that relationship and go find a REAL man!! Not to be rude but honestly wtf is wrong with you? If a guy even TRIED cheating on me I would dump him so hard he wouldn't even know what fucking hit him!

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  • Mando

    Aren't you supposed to be 18 to be on this site?

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  • Crazycrazy

    Leave his sorry ass

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  • fullhouse

    So you love him because??

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    • Ryan556

      Love means forgival do you see me throwing a fit because my gf cheated on me at prom

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      • shade_ilmaendu

        Forgiveness is nice and all, but you can't be a doormat either. I stayed with someone who was downright abusive once because "Oh I forgive them and they love mee".

        No.
        No good can come from staying in a toxic relationship.

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        • Ryan556

          Hm I guess so so sorry

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      • fullhouse

        He cheated on her 3 times, spends time doing shi and ignoring her..I dont know why she wants to be with him..

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  • You're not getting anything out of this relationship, and he is holding you back from getting in to a more serious relationship. End the relationship. I thought catching him cheat three times would of been enough reason to leave him...

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  • Danielle:)

    Leave him. even of you're not happy at first you will be soon :) there's someone WAY better out there who would want to be serious and be around you all the time and be romantic. He's obviously just acting like a friend and is using you in some way that I can't pin point. But he's not worthy to be your boyfriend, don't stay! I learned that the hard way.

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