My boyfriend is stingy, iin

My boyfriend of 1 year never buys me gifts,he asks me to pay for petrol when we went on first vacation together,i did pitch in with food etc,he then booked us into a hostel instead of a hotel which I didn't know until got there and then I paid half for that as well.In the beginning of relationship he paid for dates,we didn't go out every night once a week to a an inexpensive restaurant oof which I chose the cheapest dish and even drank water,he did take me out to cinema and pay for it and I paid for the snacks which were just as expensive .He recently told me he cant keep on paying for dates and thinks iam taking advatantage of him and insists I pay dutch for everything in the future.this guy is has a very good job and he always buying expensive gadgets for himself. iam and I recenty lost my job of 3 years so I thought he was very insensitive telling me that,iam not a gold digger just be nice if he wasn't keeping tabs on who pays what all the time.If a guy surprised me with nice gifts I do the same thing back but he does nothing I feel like his friend and not his girlfriend in the relationship.He also told me he dined at expensive restarants and expensive holidays with his exes and I feel that he not trying to impress me.selfishness is a horrible trait.I started going on free dates with him like park and hiking,but he wouldn't even buy me a bottle of water when I made the picnic.