My boyfriend is replacing me with my best friend?

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Ok, so I've been dating my boyfriend for about three years now. I just made a new best friend this past summer, but we became best friends almost instantly, as if we are sisters. So my boyfriend and best friend knew each lther, but weren't really good friends. They actually both thought that each other was annoying and couldn't stand to be around each other. It seems really weird now, but they are now getting along super duper well and have been hanging out together a ton now. Now whenever I call him, he's always with her. If I couldn't work out plans with him that day, because I was busy, he would ask her instead. I feel like I'm being replaced, but then I don't want to be selfish. It's not that i do 't want them to be friends, it's just that I'm getting a weird feeling about all of this. is it normal to feel like I'm being replaced, and should I be worried?

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  • xxxbeautifullybrokenxxx
    13 years ago

    Not normal that is very bad!

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  • ComeFlyWithMe
    13 years ago

    Definitely not normal. You need to talk to both of them.

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  • RentingEmotion
    13 years ago

    Move on.
    He's obviously interested in her, and she doesn't give a shit about girl code.
    So...screw em both :)

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  • ayanami1234
    13 years ago

    Normal. You are being replaced and it's all playing out before your very eyes! >_<

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    That must be an abolutely horrible feeling. If anything, you seem to be reacting quite rationally which says a lot for you as a person. However, skidragoon cut straight through to an interesting observation in about a million less words than I ever could. It's worth considering.

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    that is a good point skidragoon. if you are busy all the time then he might be feeling rejected by you so he is going for the next best thing, your friend. you need to talk to him and figure this out otherwise he probably will start cheating with your friend, if he hasnt already.

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  • everyrosehasthorns
    13 years ago

    Hon, ask him if he's available and make plans. Have a long talk about this. If he refuses to, dump him! He doesn't deserve you!

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  • ChaoticBunny
    10 years ago

    I'm sorry to hear/read that. It must be hard. He sounds like a player. Try talking to him and tell him how you feel. If he really is cheating on you then he doesn't deserve you. Its his loss.

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  • out-kast
    12 years ago

    Bro's before hoes!

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  • Hard_Candy
    13 years ago

    Clearly you have no boundaries with regards to your friend or your boyfriend. Its not acceptable for the two of them to hang out when you're not around. As a group with all three of you, that's one thing. But I would never tolerate my boyfriend hanging out with my female best friend. They're playing you big time. Bottom line- they're fucking.

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  • skidragoon
    13 years ago

    How often are you busy?

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