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I feel like my boyfriend is super obsessed with me ... Like he is always watching but acts as if he isn't ..then goes through my phone listens to my conversations when I'm talking over the phone
You should be seeing red flags all over the place.
Obsessive interest like that can often turn into controlling behaviour, and you really do not want to go there.
That's not normal! He is treating you more like a thing that he wants to own than a person. I think you should run fast and far from him.
Be wary. From past experience this is also a sign of defense because he could be a very jealous person or believes that you are cheating. Insecurities like that could extend from a past where he has been cheated on or is prone to cheating.