My boyfriend is extremely honest

The other night my boyfriend and I ended up having an extremely long and intimate talk. We talked about everything. He told me all about his past relationships and pretty much everything about his past. He didn't hold back at all. He even told me that he misses his ex girlfriend (just as a friend).What im asking though is it normal that he is so honest with me? and is it normal that he could actually miss his exgirlfriend as just a friend?

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77% Normal
Based on 84 votes (65 yes)
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  • aussiewolf

    haha its all good.

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  • cheesey_jelly

    It is perfectly normal for him to want to share everything with you. He loves you and wants you to know of him as much as possible. I suppose that's ok to miss your ex as a friend, he can't help it, but if you're not comfortable with it then you should speak to him about that. Also, honesty is always a good quality to have in a relationship but sometimes things just need to be kept private. But he's his own person and if he wants to share everything with you, then let him :)

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  • The man obviously still wants to bang his ex and is looking for an excuse to be alone with her. I recommend a threesome.

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  • DavidCampbell

    This is A good sign he cares about you and he is loyal and very truthful.
    Long story short no cheating.

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  • yellowchalk

    its good that he's comfortable enough to share that with you. I actually did the same thing with my current boyfriend. My ex BF was my first EVERYTHING, and he was a really important person in my life. It was painful for me when he broke up but honestly I still miss him... (We were best friends even before we dated and we talk once in a blue moon). But he treated me like shit after our break up, we're two different people now and I'm not about to dump my current BF for my ex BF. I miss the person he used to be, not the person he's become. I've been with my current boyfriend going on 3 years, and I love him and care about him, a lot more than my asshole Ex. I would never hurt my boyfriend by going back to my Ex.

    You should show him that you love and care about him. It was good of him to let you know about his past and if he really loves you he would NEVER leave you for her. If it still makes you feel bad let him know. He clearly seems very comfortable with sharing his "dark secrets" with you, and if it's making you fret then you should be equally comfortable with telling him if you feel insecure.

    Love is a very sticky situation and people who've made an important impact on your heart are hard to forget.

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  • this site is about anonymus comments but i dont always chose to make it anonymus and im sorry if i sound like a dick but mokey4lifes comment made me laugh my ass off im sorry but it wasnt right that he wrote he obviously wants to bang his ex how about a threesome that was messed up but funny im sorry i just cant help it so please dont delete my comment im asking nicely

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  • aussiewolf

    umm i am a girl and i dated a guy stripper nearly 10 years ago.

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    • my bad. i thought you were a dude lol.

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  • BoredGuy

    all normal

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    • thankyou. i really liked the fact that he shared everything with me and trusted me enough to be honest. i trust him completely. i just wanted a second opinion. and its helpful that it came from a guy too.

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  • Echoes

    *FACEPALM*

    He's screwed himself so bad. RIP

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  • aussiewolf

    what do you mean, "who are you"?

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    • i mean what is your name

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  • 1985

    Yes and yes

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  • 8Serene8

    Lol it's nice he is honest and actually shared everything in his past with you (because most men don't share a lot of their past) buut...the fact he admitted to missing his ex at all is not good.

    He may have said "as a friend" but that's not what he meant at all. Id keep an eye on him because he may stray if that ex ever comes sniffing around at any point.

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  • aussiewolf

    its good that you can share your past with each other and not get upset about it but for him to say that he misses his ex, as a friend or not, that is not a good thing. yeah you can reminiss in your memories of ex's, i still think about the stripper i dated but i dont miss anything about my past. the past is the past and there is where it is supposed to stay. i think maybe he needs to move on from his past before thinking about starting a future with another girl. but i may be looking too deep into the situation. the only way you are really going to know is by asking him but if that is what he told you then the question is, are you going to accept that?

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    • dude who are you? his ex girlfriend was a stripper too.

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