My boyfriend is being a bit, too obssesive........
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for less then 2 months and hes being a bit too obssesive. Heres How
1)He calls my house sobbing when I dont answer my cell phone 2 times in a row, because he thinks someone broke in and hurt me.
2)Hes so jealous about my guy friends, even the GAY ones. He wants to know what Im doing and who Im talking to at all times. Even when I say Im talking to sissy about girl stuff, he wants to know in detail or he cries.
3)He calls me every hour, even at night, if he wakes up to go pee, he calls me to talk for a few.
4)Within the first 3 weeks of dating he got me a....really expensive....gold necklace for no reason.
5)I was told a bit late about my bestfriends surprise birthday party, after I made plans with the boyfriend, and I havn't seen the bestie in 3 months, while I've seen the bf for the past 3 weeks. So I had her come pick me up to hang and he was MAD. I went to the bathroom to change and his BANGED his fist on the door, when I opened it (with my pocket knife ready)he was inches away from me. Which surprised me.
6)So this weekend, 7th week marker, I was asked by the bestie and him to hang....I choose the bestie, I havnt seen her in 3 weeks. And he was mad. Then I cancelled plans with her because I wasnt feeling good. So when I told the bf I wasnt hanging out with the bestie, he was happy and tried to make plans, but got mad and hung up when I said it was because Im feeling sick. So I turned off my cell, and logged off my IM and Myspace. He kept calling the house. And after about an hour, he showed up at my house, crying. Not like, tear tear, but CRYING. And hes big. Hes 6 feet and a football player for his highschool, so hes not like some little nerd kid, which makes him crying scarier.
7)Everytime I go to his house,he always wants to do something sexual, and he knows I have a problem telling people no, which is bad. I need to practice, but like I said, hes a BIG guy, so even if I said no...
I dont know what to do. I mean, I blew it off at first, I just wasnt used to having someone who cared so much, but now, its just an obsession. He calls me his drug and he tells me he loves me 50 times (if not more) a day. Should I give him a month to calm the crazy or should I dump him now?