My boyfriend hits me*

Okay so Ive been with my boyfriend for like 4 going on 5 years now and I really love him. But sometimes he hits me when hes mad at me most of the time when he is drunk he will like smack me and grap me push me punch me choke me etc. And still he tells me he's sorry or he doesnt remember blah blah , and he cant even keep promises with he it seems like he cares about spending time with he's friends more then me. Last nite he told me he was going to come home at 12:00am and he didnt come home and i waited up till like 2:00 am and there was no show so i called a taxie to bring me down to where he was hanging out at and i went there and he got really mad saying why the fuck are you hear your fucking stupid and he grabed me and took me in to the bed room and started yelling at me and hitting me, and i was so scared cause of he look on his face he was so mad. And there was this one time where we all were at my friends house and he was drunk and we got in to a lil fight and he took me in to the bathroom and it try to drowned me and he took a bucket of water and poored it all over me i was screaming and my friends heard and it pulled him back. and there was this other time when he went to the club and he didnt want me there so he took me in to a dark conor and started hitting me in the face like I was man and i had big bumps of my face after that. He can go so mean and violent like i dont know what to do cause he tells me he loves and he buys me things but i dont know anymore what should I do?

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  • TeresaBarry

    Leave his ass. Nobody deserves to be hit. Change your number, keys anything. I know you say your in love but you need to think about what if he goes too far. Dump him, get a restraining order, learn karate (or whatever) and get a consealed weapon license. He doesn't deserve you and you can't keep putting up with his crap.

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  • imadragon

    He even tried to kill you! Leave him, NOW!

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  • coolio75650932

    fight back and leave him also sue him for abuse

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  • emowar55

    leave him now

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  • latoriam32

    All abusers buy gifts and say that they love the individual that they are abusing until the next episode. His violence will get worse, not better, and who knows what level it will escalate to. You seem to have a dependence on the relationship which indicates that you have low self esteem. You should leave him ASAP, and accept that you deserve better. Actions speak louder than words, and a male that abuses his girlfriend doesn't "love" you. He has problems that you can not control, and unless he gets counseling and help for his anger issues, it will never stop. Get out before it is too late. You're not married to him, and you don't owe him anything. You owe yourself a chance at a happy life though.

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  • mattwho16

    It's not normal and you must be low self esteem cause anyone knows they shouldn't be beat up

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  • mattwho16

    Ya I'm a 26 year old male and in my circle of friends we look down upon men who hit women

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  • hammerofgod

    Good lord.. do you really need to ask what to do? You know what to do...

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  • You do NOT need a boyfriend to live. Dump him and file a restraining order. And get another boyfriend! That old one is bad for your health! Just don't let this go on.

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  • TeresaBarry

    Oh and anybody can buy you things but to show love by drowning you isn't worth it. Find a better guy

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