My boyfriend has thoughts of killing people he loves..

I'm Scared My Boyfriend Has Thoughts Of Killing People His Told Me He Had a few About His Ex For No Reason At All And Went Into Detail...It Was Horrible Made Me feel so Sick But He Said He Would Never Act Out These Thoughts! Like He Said Its Not His Fault He Doesnt choose To Think Them And His Been Honest From Start, I Love Him.. Anyone Else Ever Had These Feelings..

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Comments ( 16 )
  • woah...better be careful if u 2 break up...

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  • christine

    My boyfriend has thought about killing people he hates and even that is a bit odd.

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  • easilygreat

    have um all the time. ever seen a clockwork orange? thats how my mind works constantly.

    its fucked up.

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  • alextsang08

    What Is The Point Of Typing Like This

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  • EAT_IT

    I dream of smashing people to death with a burger that they stole from me but then I'd fix them afterwards because it's not nice to hurt other people.

    More hugging, less killing :)

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  • ElizabethBathory

    I have thoughts like that, too. He needs love.

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  • christine28

    Sounds like OCD to me, very treatable! Is he scared of these thoughts, do they cause him anxiety

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  • He loves his ex?

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  • BfingIToucher

    There is a difference between dreams and conscious thought. Sounds scary to me. Wouldn't want someone I "loved" to ever fantasize about murdering me after an argument. Yikes.

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  • KimmyKhaosXD

    I think people are over reacting who say dump him, dont do it if you love him.

    My cousin has nightmares of killing the ones he loves lol. He described in detail how he slit my throat I thought it was fascinating. I loved how creative he was. anyways Im a weird one so is my cousin, and obviously so is your man.

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  • Yeah big red flashing light there - he has no control what he THINKS? Oh really? He just obsesses about acts of extreme violence.

    I agree with the others who so - dump him. Leave a business card behind for the nearest mental health clinic if you feel obliged to care. But care for yourself first.

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  • Dnile13chik

    if i were you I would get scared and dump him. I think wanting to kill people you have lived with and hate is normal,but telling others about your kill fantasies is going too far, he's thought about it too much.

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  • jojo101

    He said he would Never act out these thoughts! so i think it ok as long as he not violent i think. i had a boyfriend that thought of killing his teacher because he got in trouble about something and he had to go to school on Sunday so he missed are date so its ok .

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  • SteveVon

    Guys say shit like that for attention, he's probably a loser.

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  • modestyblaze

    Wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!You need to stay scared and get out of that relationship.

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