My boyfriend has never taken my clothes off

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We've been having sex for 3 months, a lot. Like 2-5 times a day (when we see each other). He shows me off to his friends and compliments me a LOT but he's never even tried to get me naked, he just pushes my shorts to the side. At first it was okay because we always had people around, so wearing clothes meant that it'd be easier concealed if someone were to walk in. But lately, we have a lot more privacy. I do have a bad eating disorder (starve/binge cycle) so it may be that he's just being considerate of that but it's making me so insecure that sometimes i cry during sex. I'm at a healthy weight.. I'm 5'7 and 130 pounds but every time i mention losing weight he says good job.. I'm not sure if he doesn't do it because he thinks I don't want to show him my body or if he's just so repulsed by me that he doesn't want to see.

lose some weight and find out 1
He probs thinks ur disgusting, girly :/ 1
He probably doesnt know what to do bc of your insecurities 13
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  • angryblonde
    5 years ago

    Maybe you should just ask him. He might not know any better. He might think that this really isn’t an issue. And as for him saying good job when you lose weight, he’s probably just saying good job because he thinks you’re happy about losing weight and he’s happy you’re happy. Your weight sounds perfect so I highly doubt he’s disgusted or repulsed by you. He probably thinks he’s doing what’s best. I can understand how you would feel insecure though. I also struggle with an eating disorder. But it sounds like he might just be inexperienced and he might be waiting for you to take your own clothes off because he might think you’re not okay/ready for that.

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  • paracetamol
    5 years ago

    It appears that he is just using you for sex but is not attracted to you

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  • megadriver
    5 years ago

    He sounds like a bit of a dick... He should be comfortable with your body. Your height and weight is perfectly good.

    I think he is being weird... Hell, If I had my way, my girlfriend would walk around everywhere naked so I could enjoy the view XD

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  • McBean
    5 years ago

    Don't be so helpless. Undress yourself to give him a show.

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  • TerriAngel
    5 years ago

    That's not a good situation.
    He's using you as a sperm bank.
    You can do better.
    I won't defend fat.
    But if you're 5'7" 130.
    That's not fat, at all.

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  • CDmale4fem
    5 years ago

    Well sooner or later he will have to take then iff, they gonna have to go in the wash someday. I used to not like taking my girlfriends clothes off either, I like wearing them. Lol. I'm just making a joke. But seriously, he is not one for the romance or being a romantic sort ? Tell him no until he can be a gentleman and help you out of your clothes. It should be a natural thing to help a woman get all ready to show her guy what kind of tricks she learned at work today on the pole.

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  • Shackleford96
    5 years ago

    Wear different clothing perhaps, so that he can't just 'push it aside.'

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Ask his sorry ass what's up with everything. Also I got news for you girl, 130 lbs is not big for a female that is 5'7". I'm a couple inches shorter than you, and I remember once seeing a chart that a female my height could weigh anywhere from 114 lbs to 154 lbs. It all depends on the size of your frame and how much muscle you have.

    You don't sound fat to me in the least, and what you need is treatment for your eating disorder, girl. You know I'm right.

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    • McBean
      5 years ago

      Sorry ass? I dont think so. She could just say, "Please undress me." Desirable women are often the first to politely speak up.

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  • goodatgiving
    5 years ago

    You wouldn't have to worry about his not taking your clothes off if you stayed naked at all times as I do.
    You said he likes showing you off to his friends. Are you clothed when he shows you off or naked. Maybe he'd like you to be naked for his friends as my husband does for his friends, family, etc. as I am an exhibitionist and we both enjoy it......as well as the others. So far no complaints.
    Oh and by the way you do not seem overweight at all and my husband agrees.....SO GO GIRL !!!

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