My boyfriend has a twin who also has a gf is it normal to feel insecure?

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My boyfriend has an identical twin & he also has a girlfiriend. is it normal that I feel so insecure? I keep comparing myself to his brother's gf & I really hate that I do. I know I shouldn't, we're different & everyone is unique blah blah blah but I can't help but to compare myself to my potential "sister in law". Whether it's looks or personalities. & whenever her name is mentioned or my boyfriend talks to her I get quite pestered & irratated. I know these anger emotions come from feeling insecure but what should I do? I shouldn't hate the girl for no reason. I know it's irrational & illogical but I just feel like it's some sort of competition & I am so not a competitive person. I just want some inner peace. So am I crazy or is this normal?

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  • PixiePerfect
    8 years ago

    Dating a twin whose twin is dating some other girl is the ultimate trap to insecurity. Especially if that other girl is pretty.

    If it makes you feel any better, she's a complete whore and I'm almost positive I saw her going home with a bunch of frat boys the other day. Not only that but her feet smell like butt crack.

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    • opal-leaves
      8 years ago

      Haha you're funny. I guess I'm more attractive than her she does have a nice body though but I still feel insecure lol & the worse part she is not slutty at all lol. She's quiet & shy fml

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  • Tealights
    8 years ago

    It's normal.

    It's like looking at your boyfriend with another woman even though it's his twin brother. It would drive any woman crazy at first, especially if they were the kind of twins that dress similar to each other.

    What you need to do is trust your boyfriend more, as well as, notice and appreciate the sweet things he does for you no matter how small. His loving actions and the time he voluntarily spends with you shows he values you more than any other woman out there, and once you realize that then you'll understand that there's no competition, just be yourself and enjoy the relationship.

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    • opal-leaves
      8 years ago

      Thank you tea lights. I will try to cherish my boyfriend more & our relationship. I guess I get envious due to my own insecurities. Thanks.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    How old are you?

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    • opal-leaves
      8 years ago

      Too old to be insecure that's for sure.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Does the twin's girlfriend bear an uncanny resemblance to you perchance?

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    • opal-leaves
      8 years ago

      No completely opposite.

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      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago

        Oh, hmm... I dunno.

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