My boyfriend doesn't treat me well

I'VE HAD IT! TWELVE-YEAR-OLDS OUT! NOW!

You just answered your own question. You said I'm not happy. Why should you give your all to someone who doesn't appreciate the things you do for him? You deserve to be happy too. It takes two to tango. You can't just give and give and give and just never get anything back. It should always be give and take. I know it's hard but girl u deserve better then that. No one deserves to be called a cunt especially by someone who claims that they love.

I know it's hard and my advice is not easy. But you have to be happy to. It sounds like he don't give a shit about you.

If he cares about you, he would want to see you happy as well.

You could ten minutes at various times of the day just to know how your day is!

He move to Vegas and you are still there

He degrades you, even though he is upset, those words should not be exchange. All partners have disagreements, it makes for progress within the relationship.

It's hard and I have been there and I have sympathy but you need to let him go and think about you.

Get out there, go shopping with your friends. Do something that makes YOU HAPPY for once and forget him. You deserve the best not trash

I find it extremely annoying when girls stick with shitheads who treat them like shit when there are nice guys out there. Theres no such thing as love, leave him now before you get pregnant

I am going to put it simply, get out of there

I voted "no" not because this isn't a regular occurrence, but because you shouldn't put up with it. I understand what it's like to adore someone who doesn't really respect you the way they should. He may not be a really bad guy, but it does sound like he has anger management problems at the least that he should look into rectifying.

It would be easy to just say "dump him" but if you do truly see a future with him then you need to assert yourself more. You have every right to be happy and just as much a duty to address your own needs as well as those of others.

All I can really say is talk to him about what problems you perceive are in the relationship in a cool, empathetic manner. He needs to understand that relationships require giving as well as taking. If he does really care about preserving your relationship then a sensible man would listen and, although it might be painful to hear, if he dismisses your problems and concerns aggressively or out-of-hand then maybe he's not the right man for you. A relationship where only one person or no one is happy is not a real relationship at all.

Don't feel everything has to change at once. Just talk to him about it and if he won't stay on the phone long then tell him there' something important you need to say. I've learned the hard way that it's not arrogant to put your own needs first from time-to-time.

Your his doormat. Well done.

Women are great and I love them. Problem is women sometimes think they can "fix" a jacked up boy that looks like a fully grown man. No tool or amount of therapy can "fix" a jerk. A jerk is a jerk is a jerk. Cut your loses woman and move on.

someone's self-consious.

The only thing i have to say is.. You probably grew up without a father or he reminds you of him.

You're blinded by FAKE love. He's promising you something that he can't give you because he's to much of jerk and that's love and respect. If he treats you like crap, why would you want to be with him? If he doesn't sound happy when you call him then why the heck would want to keep talking to him? If you're friends and family don't like him, I don't know maybe they got a reason? You should know whether you want someone who will treat you better or stay with someone that doesn't know how to treat a girl, you sound like someone who deserves better, I just hope you realize it...

You deserve someone who will treat you better. Whining about your problems on here is not going to fix it though. You need to do something about it.

what a douchebag. leave him.

You should just leave him. I know it'll hurt leaving him, but the pain will eventually go away once you break up with him. You definitely don't deserve to be treated that way. If he's not going to treat you the way a girlfriend should be treated, then he doesn't deserve you. Don't hurt yourself over someone who treats you like shit.

yes i am very young i will be 18 soon... and yeah its hard but thank you guys for the advice... i just have no clue wat to do.. but thank you so much.. and now i think i know.. cuz i wanna be happy again and i used to be wit him all the time now idk if i am.. sometimes i am but sometimes im not...

Bin him pet!

You'd be much happier trying not to psychoanalyse this idiot and altering yourself to please someone who doesn't even know what he wants.

I assume you're very young, as not many in their 30's would put up with this shit, but get out there and find someone who deserves you.