My boyfriend cheated on me with my dad, is it normal

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So I've been with my boyfriend for nearly two years now. Every thing was fine, at least I thought it was. But yesterday I saw him and my dad in the bedroom. What I saw leaves no space for questions, they were definitely going at it. I've never seen something as disgusting as this.
I left before they could see me. I wanted to call them out on it, but I really, really wouldn't know what to say. I mean, with my dad! Is he bisexual now? Is he gay? Is my dad, too???
I'm sitting in my room now, drinking and crying. What do I do?
Somehow I'm more mad at my boyfriend than at my dad, because I always knew my dad was a piece of shit. Is it normal?

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Comments ( 21 )
  • dinz
    9 years ago

    For someone to break a vow to be faithful in a relationship is horrible, for a family member to be a part of breaking that vow is just heart breaking.

    I hope you can move on. There is other fishes in the sea.

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  • KeepsakeDoll
    9 years ago

    Dump your boyfriend. If they cheat on you once, you can bet that there's a chance they'll do it again.

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  • reminiscent
    9 years ago

    I would leave him ...he isnt worth it. Cheeting is disgusting behavior and unforgivable ...they will cheet again.

    If I were you I would stop drinking ...dont hurt your liver over a cheeter. *hugs*

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    No. Excommunicate them both from your life and tell your mom if she's still with him.

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  • litnas
    9 years ago

    I wish I could tell you that I understand how you feel, but that's impossible because the situation you just described is exceedengly rare, painful and disgusting. my advice is this, first dump the boyfriend, then get your dad totally out of your life, after that seek a good therapist who can help you to overcome this situation in the best possible way.

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  • scullyfbi
    9 years ago

    Your feelings are normal. What THEY did is not, because both of them know it was a betrayal to someone they both supposedly cared about. You don't think that the boyfriend hanging with you was a cover to be close to your father?

    Stay away from both from now on.

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  • Shiroyasha
    9 years ago

    I am really sorry about your story. Not, it is not normal, and both are a piece of shit... but... I just wanted to say that we need more of this :D

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  • The_Management
    9 years ago

    I did too.

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  • stankpussy
    9 years ago

    how big is dads dick?

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  • Maki_P
    9 years ago

    Cheating is horrible, cheating with one of your parents is beyond horrible.
    His sexual preference is irrelevant, the important part is that he's a piece of trash and you can do better. (And I'm sorry, but your dad is trash too)

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  • dynamohumm
    9 years ago

    For Fucks Sake! No it is NOT normal and if this is not a troll post get the both of them the fuck out of your life.

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  • pastor_of_muppets
    9 years ago

    Who was the stacker and who was the packer?

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  • thexian
    9 years ago

    Bang his mom! BANG HIS MOM!

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  • pizzabrowniesushi
    9 years ago

    ugh sorry you bf and dad are such douches. seriously its not your fault they sound like a bunch of narcissists.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    That's horribly traumatic for you. I'm truly sorry you had to experience seeing that.

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  • Ellenna
    9 years ago

    What a hideous thing to happen to you - double betrayal plus the contempt of (presumably) leaving the bedroom door open so you could catch them at it.

    They're both trash, not because they're gay or experimenting with it, but for their behaviour towards you and (again presumably) your mum.

    I agree with earlier suggestions for therapy to deal with this, don't see how anyone could handle this situation on their own.

    Take care of yourself

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  • eastbeast
    9 years ago

    Shag his Mum.

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  • sillygirl77
    9 years ago

    That's so hurtful. Sorry this happened to you. Dump him and I don't even know what to do about your dad :(.

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  • vergil7
    9 years ago

    l0l

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  • 213
    9 years ago

    They are both sick

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  • green_boogers
    9 years ago

    This situation might work if you wanted to do it with your boyfriends Mom or Dad. But, I don't think you really want to.

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