My boyfriend cant eat pussy... like hes bad

So me and my boyfriend wanted 2 try something new well we have bothe done it but not with each other so like were layin in bed and I asked him if he wanted 2 eat me out and he said sure... So he went down on me and I mean it was ok but it kinda sucked... What should I do?

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  • mateo

    its not that hes bad.its that you dont communicate

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  • knoshann

    Tell him "I really like it when ---" and if he does something you like tell him right then. Not necessarily with words but moans and movements.

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  • shiny_stuff_girl

    whatever you do dont turn to porn! it may look good but its terrible

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  • dreamhacker

    give him hints, if he does something you like tell him "i love it when you do that" or use body language to tell him...grab his head and guide him, be subtle about it.

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  • Jen118584

    Watch porn with him. It's very educational.

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    • iin2want2know

      The people in porn eat pussy like they are putting their tongue onto a 9 volt battery...come on and eat it already

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    • Not really. Porn is clearly not the best way to teach him how to do anything. I can think of one really good way but I doubt you will let someone else teach him so um...

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      I got nothing as I am in the same boat as well. However, pleast trust me, porn won't work.

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      • turtlewax590

        So by now you probably have given up on the BJ but I figured I'd throw some out. First make sure you JUST washed everything. Have a glass of water for her in case her mouth starts to get dry. She then needs to commit to getting spit all over her face. I have my BF lay on his back and I lay at his side and lean over him...resting on one arm while the other hand plays with his dick,balls,taint,& ass. If she cant put the whole thing in then I suggest she sucks on the tip while pumping with her hand. Personally I like to vary the speed of everything to what feels good to me. She should try to be enthusiastic which will help you enjoy it more too. She should be willing to lick and suck on your balls as well. It WILL be messy. If you like the idea of ass play just tell her. If she wont she wont but she might be willing to finger you or give a rim. I think asking for tips and such or you giving them during might make her more paranoid and therefore do a worse job. Good luck.

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  • stillcurious

    Well tell him what he's doing wrong.

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  • I am truly good at this and it took a lot of practice. Unfortunately (or fortunately depending on how you look at it) my fiance was a virgin when I met her and I am her first EVERYTHING.

    First kiss, sexual partner, real friend, everything. And I have no idea how to teach her to do this right as I truly don't do this. I never have sucked a dick nor will I ever. I will help you for help back.

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  • My fiance cannot give head to save her life. I will write out detailed instructions if you can give her some detailed instructions as well. Please help me as well. Help me, help both you and her.

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    • jujuman

      Well at least she is trying. But when she is doing it -tell her what feels good and nad what to foucus on-and complement her on how beautiful she is

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