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We rarely have sex. Im 19 he is 21. We live together and do it once every 2 or 3 weeks. Im very attractive and so is he.
me and my gf have this problem as well, and its me not her. OUR problem is, right now neither of us work or go to school so we are literally with each other TWENTY FOUR SEVEN. this has made me completely not attracted to her. But time away does help for sure, even if its just for a day. and going to a party together, then getting trashed = crazy sex later.
You should be having a lot of sex. It might be something wrong with him or the sexual chemistry just isn't there. Either way you should talk about it. This type of situation could destroy your confidence and that's just a shitty thing for anyone to go through. I speak from experience...don't neglect your needs
It's okay if that's what you both want. You should talk to him and make sure that's what he wants sexually and if you're okay with it too it's not a problem. It's not all about sex
So young & having problems already OMG I feel sorry for you honey. Get it sorted or get out of the relationship if that's what it's called. At your age you should be dreaming how or where he's going to have you next not when or how long do you have to wait.
You failed to say if you want it more. What is normal for you two may not be normal for someone else. Everyone has a sex drive and if your sex drives match good for you.
You see women thing that being attractive is enough. If your pretty, look sexy, and attractive great. BUT if your a lousy lay or not a turn on that's why your not getting fucked every other night at least.
You need to tease him go out and forget to put your panties on the secretly tell him OMGI forgot to put my panties on and I'm wet. Or give him small peaks of your breasts without your bra maybe when wearing loose home clothes. If that dose not work and your not a prude buy a small dildo and leave it were he may find it. If he looses his rag tell him he's not performing to the required level. If he's curious show him how you play with it.
If that don't work he's gay, dump him
There is no right or wrong amount of times to have sex per week/ month etc. Not everybody has the same sex drive and not everybody places the same amount of importance on the 'having sex' part of the relationship.
If it is not worrying you or your partner and you are both happy with the amount of intimacy you have with each other then all is good.
You need to speak to each other about this.
It's only a problem if you want to do it more often. If you both have low sex drives... it's not at all unusual to do it less after a few years.