My boyfriend always drives under influence

I'm no saint but drunk driving isn't acceptable. I'll put whatever drugs/alcohol in my body as I'm the only one at risk but you can kill someone else driving intoxicated. I have friends who drive drunk all the time because they swear they're good drunk drivers but I personally don't believe it, on the flip side I drive high all the time. Just take his keys from him, your bf needs to grow up if he's calling you ms moralizer.

It sounds to me like he is a very selfish and thoughtless person. Not only is he needlessly putting his life on the line, but yours as well.
If I were you, I would not ride with him when he drinks and take a cab if necessary. This will do 2 things; 1) keep you safe and 2) let him know his behavior is totally unacceptable to you.
Alternately, just refuse to go out with him if he is going to drink.
Truthfully though, I think you should dump this guy. He obviously doesn't care enough about you to get you home safely, no matter how he feels about his own life. You can't be stupid enough to imagine you could actually have a long term relationship with him, leading to marriage. Even if he lives long enough, would you want him driving your kids around drunk?
So get real and tell him that his behavior is totally unacceptable to you and if it doesn't stop immediately, you're gone.

You have a right to express your opinion. What he is doing is very dangerous, if he doesn't listen, I don't know what could make him agree. You could either stay with this guy and worry about him every time he is behind the wheel or you could move on.

Always?

The Overstatement police are coming to lock you up in exaggerationtraz.

DO NOT get into his car. SERIOUSLY. My sister had a boyfriend with the exact driving habits that your boyfriend has. Speeding, drinking, etc. One day he was driving drunk and they were supposed to ride in his car together. But at the last minute, my sister and her friends decided to just follow behind him in their car. He lost control of the vehicle and flipped his car several times after he hit a brick wall right before her eyes. The passengers side of the car was wrecked.
I've also had a friend who was a passenger to a drunk driver, when the driver lost control, she flew out of the car, breaking several bones, suffered gnarly road rash and bruised herself all over. And that's the best case scenario in that situation. If you don't care about his safety, at least take yours into consideration.

Make other arrangements for a ride home if it makes you uncomfortable. If you can't make arrangements for other transportation, perhaps you should refrain from going to these parties? I saw you said somewhere that you don't have a license - guess it's time to get crackin' on that if you're old enough to go to a party and drink...?

Firstly your bf is not confident. Confidence means you're self-assured but know your limitations. He is over-confident, cocky, arrogant, ignorant and reckless. He over-estimates his abilities and this will surely get him in serious trouble.

I used to have a friend like him. The one time I rode with him-we were going to a friend's house party in another city and had to take a dangerous highway with many sharp bends and inclines-I learned that not only did he drink and drive but he drove like an absolute madman in an old beater car which he treated like a Formula 1 race car.

There have been some extremely rare incidents in my life where I felt sheer terror and fear and this was one of them and I'm definitely not a guy who scares easily.

After that experience, I found out all I needed to know about this character and cut him off for good. A year or so later I heard through a mutual friend that he died when his car smashed into a telephone pole, I'll spare you the gory details.

In the back of my mind, I knew I would've died also had I been in the car with him that day, but it could've just as easily happened the one time I rode with him had he lost control of the car. He had it coming and in a macabre way, it's nice to see Darwinism at work.

Your bf also sounds like an alcoholic and he's too cocksure of himself, doesn't listen to anyone. He's going to mess up big time someday and realize what an ass he's been and regret his behavior. But you don't have to be there when that happens. Why put up with this douchebag, there's plenty of fish in the sea as they say.

By the way, I've had other close calls on the road-people develop a false sense of security but bad things can happen in an instant, so best to play it safe and cautious. All the stuff they say about 'arrive alive' etc, might be hokey but it's true.

You need to stop him.

He's gonna end up killing someone.

You are completely right to be concerned and especially to try to keep him from driving. You should not get in the car with him when he is intoxicated.
If you love him and want to be with him, I would suggest trying Al-anon. It is a support group for those who have loved ones like your bf. I don't know much about the group, but they probably have good information for you.
Good luck, be safe, and your English is fantastic.

DUI is enough of a reason to have a REALLY serious talk with him. If he doesn't listen to reason, find another way to get home, or dump him.
Drunk driving is a very, very serious problem.

Get out of this relationship.

You need to figure out what's more important - your relationship or your life. First, don't ever get in the car again with this guy after he's been drinking.

Secondly, you could call the police when he tries to drive away. That will likely be the end of your relationship, but at least you might have saved a life.

Or the alternative is to just let this happen until he ends up killing himself or someone else.

It just depends on where your priorities are.

My dad does that but what suprises me is that he is a damn good driver even when he is drunk, it used to worry me but now I couldn't care less since I no longer get rides from him and stuff. You could hire a cab or make transport arrangements for everyone at the party. I'm assuming you'll be sober when he drives you home etc so as the one in control at that particular moment If I were you I'd take over the wheel when your boyfriend has been drinking. It's really up to you and it's pretty straight forward, ride with a drunk person and risk being killed or killing someone... the choice is pretty simple.

If he refuses to not stop drinking and driving then you really have some decisions to make because it highlights the kind of person he is. I hope you sought it out.

You need to tell him to stop acting like a drunk ass child. How many people die every year from people like him, how many children left without a mom or dad, how many people left paralyzed or pissing in bags for the rest of their lives because ur bf decided he was 'invincible'. Buy a pocket brethalizer and force it on him before u get In the car with him Lol. U gotta do something to show him his behavior is wrong and dangerous or odds are he will just keep doing it till he kills himself or someone else.

You are the only one putting your life in danger. Just because he's driving home doesn't mean you have to get in the car with him.

What a dumbfuck.

Dump his ass.