My boyfriend?

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So i have a boyfriend that is quite older than me and is awesome, sweet and considerate to me.But, sometimes we have our up's and down's. We broke up a couple of months ago because things weren't working out like i hoped. he would just stop talking to me and have his moody days for the longest time, and i felt really unappreciated.But now we are together and working things out, but im afraid that he will wind up like he did b4. so, is this normal?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    love is easy to fall but hard to maintain.

    youll be great if you can have balance, with in the relationship.

    this was always so hard so very hard to believe but i've found that, life makes the decision 90% of the time all you have to do it react.

    unless you want to be pro-active and make a decision like " if he does this one more time no matter what im leaving" a silent promise lol

    its so hard to believe also that there is someone many ones out their besides the one your with, you never have to feel like you missed out their are too many options too much technology and too many people to feel like one person is worth being unhappy.

    i use to say. if your not dying with out him, dont commit, but now i see that was a little silly. i just felt that i was too young to waste those early twenties on just anyone...

    gotta get it outta your system so you can settle down is what they say around here.

    with in reason of course. no harmful reckless behavior.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      thanks for the help

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  • GroovyPrincess
    13 years ago

    He sounds to me like he is a little bit moody and that he needs alone time. I would leave him alone when he wants you'll notice that if you do he will come back all better. The other thing that being older than you - you may not relate to things in the same way. Just remember relationships have good and bad days some need more work than others and if it becomes more work than fun = RUN

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      thanks :), this helped me a lot.

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  • PlatinumDutchBMW
    13 years ago

    First, it sounds like you feel a little insecure in your relationship. Which, that is totally OK and I mean no disrespect. It just sounds like maybe the trust isn't 100% there. If you don't see this going anywhere in the long term and you think you're going to have to look over your shoulder all the time, then it may be worth cutting the cord and moving on.

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  • ayanami1234
    13 years ago

    Normal. That's life sweety! ^_^ hehe

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  • Savmagic
    12 years ago

    You don't give bj's?

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  • chaosdragoon1
    13 years ago

    Great bj's prevent break ups you know.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      haha, ill pass on that i dnt do them

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    If it didn't work out before it's not going to this time either. Men don't change unless they really want to. Which isn't that often.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      he told me that he wanted to change but idk, maybe im being paranoid about things? -_-

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  • DannyKanes
    13 years ago

    I'll let White Spirit answer this one

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  • blandy
    13 years ago

    Is it normal that you have a boyfriend? Or that you broke up once? Your question doesn't make any sense.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      is it norrmal that he acts like this. that was my question

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  • StupidAngMo
    13 years ago

    Things will be fine as long as you stop being a fucking bitch.

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