My bff accused me...

Is it normal for her to do this ?
Let's start like this: I introduce her to a guy in fb( me & him are good friends), she fell for him. He didn't say that he felt the same for her, so he just kept talking to her. After that he fought with her because she broke a promise, and he blocked her and blah blah... One day he said that it was his last day in fb, so he wanted to say a good bye to me, I didn't believe him, and she was insisting to know what he was telling me. So I was sending her his messages because I'm her BFF. Then he published in my wall a song of James Blunt(Goodbye My Lover). She saw it and asked me what's wrong with him, I told her as a joke; he must be crying because we are going to separate. Then she said Please stop,don't tell me what he is telling you because that's hurt, really (My Lover)!, I said what's wrong she said JUST ADMIT THAT YOU LOVE HIM, BECAUSE YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT HIM(like WTF she is the one who asked for his messages). I told her if I did u will be the first one who should know. she couldn't stop yelling at me and saying u hide it from me that you love him -_-. When I saw her mad I didn't want to talk about it, she said and now u don't want to talk about his subject so that prove it.
She only wants me to say yes I love him, so she can blame it all on me.
The thing that hurts me that she didn't trust me, and she thought that I would hide something from her.
Since she met that guy she forget all our friendship. She fought for a guy whom she met only in 6months and forget that i was always there for her more than 6years.
So is it normal and what do you think ?

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33% Normal
Based on 46 votes (15 yes)
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Comments ( 19 )
  • *Downloading Facebook onto database* ........................................................................................................................

    It is settled. Daleks will utilize Facebook to exterminate friendships and marriages in our spare time, when we are not busy exterminating lifeforms.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Sorry you're having this problem. I've had best friends in the past but I never say they're forever because nothing lasts forever. I honestly don't think I could bear to be around someone like your so called BFF. If you can, try to take a break from her, even if it's just for a week or two. From what you've posted I can't see a single wrong or unkind thing that you've done to her. You don't owe her a damn thing. It's not your fault that this guy decided he didn't like her but chooses to remain friends with you.

    I wouldn't be surprised if she tried her jealous, possessive, domineering, needy and generally codependent behavior on him and he decided he didn't want anything to do with her. For all you know she might have started to cyber stalk him after all he did block her.

    Give yourself a break and stop taking crap from her. She sounds like a very emotionally draining person.

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    • Thank you ... that was helpful.. and yes indeed i'm taking a break from all the drama ^_^

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      • RoseIsabella

        You go, girl! I'm seriously glad to see you're taking care of yourself.

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  • Sog

    I... um...

    *scratches head*

    Never mind.

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    • YourMomSaysHello

      Very insightful comment.

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  • Cheese123

    Sounds like a bitch to me. Fuck her.

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  • kelili

    She's in love, understand her. Just tell her that you are sorry. In some months she will realize by herself that she has overacted.

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    • yes i understand her feelings but why i'm the one who should be sorry ? yes maybe sorry for myself ! is it my fault ?

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      • kelili

        It's not about who's the fault, it's about understanding her feelings and understanding that right now she is not thinking right because she's in love. Maybe you are both too young.

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  • Derpinism

    so you acted like a pimp basically

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    • why r u saying that ... is it my fault ?

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  • DragonQueen

    Too long!

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    • YourMomSaysHello

      I've heard that a lot from women.

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      • DragonQueen

        Really, Well that is indeed wonderful, Are you caramel, Young and muscular too?

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        • YourMomSaysHello

          Unfortunately yes.

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          • DragonQueen

            Then Please report to me in my chambers. So I can look u over. My caramel crunch!

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    • shuggy-chan

      tis about a jelly B that forgot that the B in BBF stands for best and not Bitchy my liege

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      • DragonQueen

        Am I bitchy. Or are you talking about this idiot. Well I am due for my menses soon. Don't be a hater of hormones now.

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