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he said that in front of me! and said that if he was better with women OUR relationship would be different!!!! that he would be out dating. wtf.... and i said that was one of the rudest things he’s ever said and he’s mad at me now! advice ? what do you guys think
Flip it around: how would he react if you'd said to him that if you were more confident with guys, you'd be out dating rather than being with him?
I can only assume that when your boyfriend refers to "guys who are good with women", he means players who are incapable of forming any sort of emotional attachment with a women.
Relationships aren't easy, and I think it's not uncommon for immature guys who are dealing with one to believe that the single life with a different woman every night would be a lot more fun. A sensible, sensitive guy wouldn't say that. Nor would he imply that he only settled for you because he's not able to get something better.
What it sounds like he’s saying (at least to me) is that he’s decided to “settle” with you because he’s not good enough to get someone “better”, which is awful. He sounds like a jerk.
because i think he will change. & honestly, i need to be less insecure and snoopy... he needs to work on just being nicer
No, he probably won't change. The way I see it you have two choices. You can either accept him for the dirt bag he is, or leave. He doesn't seem to be doing any work on being nicer, and trust me he probably never will.
yeah and i will if it rly doesn’t change. i’m just scared of him just going around and dating other people and “loving”other people and wanting to hookup and doing websites and stuff.....
Yes, but you are powerless over what he chooses to do. He's gonna do what he wants to do, and what you need to decide is whether you want to put up with his bullshit or not. I can also talk to you til I'm blue in the face, but you're gonna do what you want. I just happen to think a break up will be easier on you if you call the shots, and do it on your terms instead of waiting for him to dump you in a hurtful way, chica.