My bf only turns me on when he forces me

So my boyfriend only ever seems to turn me on enough for me to be interested in getting fucked or fingered or whatever when he gets forceful with me. Sometimes he will wake me up from my sleep by doing stuff to me and thwt really gets me going however then he starts sucking on me and just instant turn off. Idk does anyone else have this type of problem?

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  • barefoot_on_the_sand

    It's not healthy to only be turned on by rough sex.
    Look into it.

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    • Im not, but with him i am, im not overally attracted to him and hes not very good at getting me there, i thinj he has difficulties acessing the mental part for me so i just cant get there

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    • RoseIsabella

      That's how I feel too!

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  • gavin2885

    You just need to be raped for real. That will turn you off from being forced by your boyfriend. And you’ll appreciate him eating you out.

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    • First off i would love to be raped for real i cant deny, and i do appreciate him eating me out i just cant feel it till he penatrates me. Like lick your arm. Thats what it feels to me. Like you feel it but it irs not enjoyable in any way. Thats what its like for me front and back

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  • sissycakes

    basically did you tell your boyfriend that you wanted him to be rough or is he a /// for real? just asking.

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  • sixtyninefourtwenty

    I think you're into BDSM.
    Food for thought.
    Just as long as you're safe and enjoying it, what's the harm?
    Please remember protection. You don't want to regret it later!
    Best of luck in your journey of self discovery.
    Good question. :)

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  • blue_grounds

    i'd say its nothing to worry about it's a pretty natural kink

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  • Maybe it's not a problem. Maybe it's just the way your brain is wired.

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    • Very well could be, thats why i try not to let it bug me. Well plus my feelings for him

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  • isitnotmal

    Rawr!

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  • lordofopinions

    You like rough sex. That's your kink. As long as no physical harm is being done I see no problem with it.

    What's the hang up with sucking his nipples? Do you think its only lesbians that do that? Personally I love it when my partner sucks my nipples and other things. :) Do you enjoy it when he sucks and bites your nipples then receprocation is necessary. My first wife loved to have me bite her nipples when she was cumming. She would often tell me "harder" but I was afraid of drawing blood.

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    • Im just not comfortable with doing it, nipples bug me, ive told him if he shaves the area ill push past it for him but he wont shave it. And he has some hairy ass nipples

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  • IrishPotato

    Suck on his nipples.

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    • He would like that but i cant bring myself to do it

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      • Ellenna

        Why not?

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        • Because it just males me fill ill thinking about it, like the udea of topping a guy. Just uuhhg cant do it. I feel bqd about it but ive told him im willing to try and push past it if hell shave the area, but he wont so i wont either

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          • IrishPotato

            Lmao he won't shave for you?

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            • No he wont

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          • RoseIsabella

            What's wrong with being on top of a guy?

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            • Topping as in being the guy in the relastionship while being sexually active, we are a gay couple

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