My bf of 2 years has e.d. is it normal to be faithful?

I fantasize often. For him, an ex bf... Any other man I imagine at the moment.

I always had a powerful & fulfilling sex life. Now i have everything else with my bf. just no sex. I have been 100% faithful. We are in our early 30's.

Yes,Viagra is wonderful. But expensive too.

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  • There is a difference between being in a relationship with:
    A) someone who is not physically attracted to you and
    B) someone who is physically attracted to you but is unable to act upon that attraction in a traditional sense.

    In situation A, you are unwanted, both your physical and emotional needs are not being met. In this situation, a person might seek out the missing attention from someone else, or leave the relationship altogether.

    In situation B, you are wanted and your emotional needs are met, yet there are challenges to the physical aspect of the relationship. Those challenges could be overcome with some creativity. As long as the relationship remains a loving one and all the other needs are being met, then there is very little reason for infidelity.

    So, to answer your question, it is normal to be faithful in a relationship with a boyfriend who has E.D. You two must love each other quite a bit.

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  • thegypsysailor

    With the internet and the easing of sexual morals, I don't see this as a deal breaker in a loving relationship.
    Perhaps it is a temporary condition for him, perhaps not, but would you trade your relationship with him for another, probably not better in any other way, except for the sex?
    There is internet porn, toys galore and other stuff I'm sure, out there that you could get your pleasure with, and still remain faithful to your guy.
    Of, of course, if it's not a terrific relationship any way, it just might be time to move on.

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  • LizardSkin

    It's ALWAYS morally normal to be faithful. If you decide you can't handle his problem then you should end the relationship.

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  • CreativeThinker

    Donot know if its normal or not but it is not common.....

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  • (s)aint

    Basically ... If sex is important for you you could have him wear a strap-on . I just know that for ME that would not do it ... How about you (with your BF's consent!) Take a lover on the side?

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