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my bf keeps saying he's gonna breakup with me but he never does. he keeps giving me more chances. but he's being so rude about it. why do you think he's being so forgiving about it and never actually doing the act if he says he doesn't know what to do and that he will breakup with me next time. it's cuz my bc is making me crazy and i act crazy
He's toying with you. You know you're bf is not a keeper if he threatens to break up with you just to get what he wants.
He's gas-lighting you. Basically, him threatening to break up with you is keeping you in a constant state of fear so you're easier to control. He's not going to break up with you.
It's probably not even your birth control, but him blaming your birth control for his own threats and actions toward you, like the typical, "You made me do this! You and your damn -insert anything here- are driving me crazy."
In my opinion, you should probably break up with him, because there are better ways to handle the emotions of others instead of doing it with fear and punishment.
Yes He's totally insecure, I dont know how but you should try to find a way to help him feel better about himself. Try pulling your own weight and being with him because you want to be with him and not because you have to.
He's playing with your mind and using that sick game as a means to control you. Your best course of action is to dump him and completely cut ties with him as soon as possible. This boyfriend of yours is not a good person, honey.
It sounds like he's not sure of himself, He will continue to toy with you because you allow him to. If you're not comfortable with the way he's acting it's best you make the decision for him and end it with him, He sounds very insecure about himself.