My bf is married

so i broke up with my bf today because i texted him last night and his WIFE answered... i never knew he had a wife because we dont live in the same city.. even after all the proof he denys having a wife and says its his ex .. i dont believe him but i dont want him out of my life and i still want to be with him i dont get why because i shouldnt want to after this is it normal to feel like this after u find out ur bf has a wife?

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Based on 43 votes (16 yes)
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Comments ( 15 )
  • DiscoDuck

    COOL!!!!

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  • MercedesBenz

    Wtf happened???

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  • amandalynn

    My husband made a mistake. He didn't meet with her or anything. Beka needs to stop finding online men... get a real one... my husband isn't lame.

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  • amandalynn

    Ummm... this is the wife. Beka..I hate this happened to you and to me... but hon... he's in another COUNTRY a world away... he never gave your permission to call us, he went and got a fake PO box in another city than we live... red flags. He never left our home. I hate we have both had to go thru this.

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  • Stay away from my husband bitch

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  • thebuddah

    Wait what???

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  • JewFish

    He is a dirtbag though.

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  • KimmyKhaosXD

    damn, that shitt was fucked, I am happy bout your new bf beka, and amanda I am sorry for your lame excuse for a husband!

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  • beka1ici0us

    thanks everyone for your advice i did what u guys said and now i have an awesome bf so thank u all

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  • mtnw

    he made believe he didn't know who you were? what's his excuse for being with her twice? this guy isn't worth it.

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  • Star1778

    if you truly care for him, then feeling the way you do isn't completely insane. you may hate him, but that doesn't mean you don't still care for him.

    however, staying with him would be a seriously bad decision on your part. it could just be that he's unhappy in his marriage, or that the marriage went sour long, long ago. but, the fact he never told you about his "wife" means you should run away, and fast.

    situations like these never end on a good note.

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  • DucksAndPeaches

    That man is a serious dirtbag. Get out with your dignity honey. Tell him where he can go and hopefully his wife will do the same.

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  • Toaster

    hey, some bitches are crazy! call her again and talk to her a bit longer, so that way if she's nuts you could figure it out, if she's serious, then one step closer to TTYL BF

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    • beka1ici0us

      i did that already ... he was in the same house as her because i told her to prove it and go and get him and he was there ... i know they have a kid together so that can explain it but he pretended he didnt know who i was when she put him on the phone he says theres a reason to all this but he needs to trust me to tell me i think its bullshit tho

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    • I agree with Toaster.

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