My bf is into scat and feet

Started dating for the first time this year, he's cute and older and nothing like the guys in my year level but he has a scat or a smell thing as he always asks me to skip the shower the day before coming to his. When I do come over he only ever wants to have anal and requests that I dont use the bathroom that day. The smell in the room and the feeling make me feel sick at times and now he wants to smell my feet and rub his nose into my toes right before he finishes. I was worried about denying what he wanted and a jokingly said his room stinks and he said its normal and that I shouldnt care because his place is private and said he wouldn't date me if I stopped doing it so now I think he is using me. Lately its been getting dirtier with him wiping thick smears on my ass when he takes it out and a last time a big smudge ended up on the back of my dress that I didnt notice till after I got home. We only just moved to this state at the end of 2019 and my new friends think I'm pretty and like me and I'm worried they could find out that I'm doing this stuff as im fairly sure people could smell what I've been doing if they sat super close to me, and I am starting to feel used am I, or is this normal over here?

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  • RoseIsabella

    That guy is messed up, and disgusting. Why would you put up with that garbage? Just dump his nasty ass, you're better off without that weirdo!

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    • Phoebe2005

      How can you say he is garbage though you dont even know him and if its just because of the sex stuff well I dont mind doing things for a guy so dont take that the wrong way but i dont want to be used and the stuff we were doing didnt seem abnormal until lately since when we first got together it was only him kissing and rimming me as he is my first and thats all i was comfortable with then it started with him saying he could finish doing the rimming quicker if I skipped the shower so we did that a few times and then a week later I got a msg on kik saying he wanted to try actual anal and that he couldnt stand just looking at that spot. The night before I came over he said it wouldn't hurt as much and be more open if I skipped the bathroom so we tried it and that might be true as I’m pretty skinny I don’t know as it still hurt but the feeling of him pushing it in and out while I have a big thick shit up there was making me feel sick like a toilet session that would never end and the first time I saw it smeared after he had taken it out I felt pretty disgusting at what we had done, I guess I am used to it more now but after reading these it does seem like he is using me now.

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  • JellyBeanBandit

    You're right to think you're being used, you need to dump him pronto.

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  • Clunk42

    If that's his fetish, that's his fetish. However, if you don't like it, then put a limit on it. I'm saying, reduce what is done if you don't like it being done. If you're fine with it and willing to accept it, then whatever. However, if you're only okay with some of it, then only do some of it. If you need to reduce what is done, tell him and if he doesn't accept that, then he doesn't truly love you.

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  • Nikclaire

    He sounds like a piece of shit.

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  • Flawless

    I'd have said it was weird as fuck but fine if he hadn't said he'd leave you if you didn't do it.

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  • Bass

    I love females with pretty feet and toes, I just do not understand what is so strange or disgusting about it. The whole scat and pee thing is as vile as cuckold and pedophilia.

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  • CDmale4fem

    I DAMN near gag myself when I use the bathroom. Why the he'll someone wants to hold on to the aromatic deliciousness of shit. Umm, when you feel you can't leave him because"you love him" then stop and ask yourself what's the definition of Real Love. AND Someone can only do to you what you allow them to. Unless you want bedsheets shit stained from him wiping his duck onthem, then somwday (not trying to be gross here but) he is gonna try getting someone into that to actually suck his dick after anal. No matter who or what if you don't like ut, enjoy it or want it, THEN DON'T DO IT. STAND UP FOR YOYRSELF. DO NOT LOSE THE "I GOT BOOBIES AND YOU DONT" POWER.

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    • Phoebe2005

      It is REAL love ive been seeing him since Feb he has way more experience than me yet he still wanted to be with me and he gave up a lot including kicking out his ex from his house the week after he found me on snap and said he knew he was in love from the very first time he saw me. I do stand up for myself. Yes he wants me to do some of those things but he asked me from the very start if i was into trying new things and if I cared if things ever got a little dirty and I was so into him so I said I didn't if he didn't. I've only been using my hands afterwards not sucking it, sometimes its thickly covered though and he puts it right up to my open mouth which sometimes rubbed over my lips and nose.

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  • Doesnormalmatter

    You are so gullible lol. I like how you just listen to all his "requests" even tho you don't seem to like those things.

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    • Phoebe2005

      It's just the way it is if I want to be with him so I messaged him again saying im not up for it tomorrow and now he's ignoring me.

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      • CDmale4fem

        He is ignoring you because HE KNOWS HOW YOU FEEL FROM WHAT YOU TOLD HIM. If a woman put their vagina in my face and it has shit rubbed all over it I would throw yp, wash up, get dressed and NEVER go there again. Think of it as our body is a machine, food feeds the fire that gives up energy, but in most any machine there is a waste product of some kind. WASTE PRODUCT. as in "not for human consumpttion". That's the exhaust that our bodies get rid of like a cars exhaust. But hey, if you want him to treat you like shit, well then I guess your dreams are coming true. Try something- fuck him with a strap on. Pull it out, shit covered and all, and put it under his nose and run it against his lips and see if he lets you. If he won't then ya, he's really treating you like shit. But hey, it's your life, hope you don't get sick from sucking a shitty dick. Well, gee, I'm a poet, I didn't even know ut.

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  • momwatcher69

    YUCK !!

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