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He still comes over to my place to cook and eat dinner with me like we're still a couple. Then I can't get him to leave so he ends up sleeping over. And in bed he'll start hugging me and then having sex with me while I'm half asleep and not really wanting to.
Don't let him in the house. Call the cops if he won't leave. Simple, no?
You are not standing your ground and he knows he can keep pushing you and it seems you need an english lesson, repeat after me "we are not together anymore, get the hell out or Im calling police, and Im changing the locks, if I find you here again Im pressing charges, now GTFO." (GET THE FUCK OUT). Stand your ground, "SOMEONE CAN ONLY DO TO YOU WHAT YOU ALLOW THEM TO DO". Write that on paper and stick it on your doors and your fridge, read it, recite it, memorize it, and stand by it. More important- stand up for yourself.
If he's having sex with you while you're half asleep I'm pretty sure that's rape...also why would you let him in??!
it's questionable but I wouldn't call it rape, she's still clearly conscious enough to understand whats going on, and while she said she doesn't want it she also is't telling him no, plus since its happened numerous times if she really didn't want it she could've stopped it at any point.
Maybe e is in denial.
Maybe you need a SHOTGUN or a HEAVY MACHINE GUN or a ROCKET LAUNSHER.
You're giving him contradictory messages: you broke up with him but you let him sleep over in your bed?? Having sex with you when you don't really want to is called rape. Don't let him in the house.
He's not accepting the breakup because you haven't really ended it, have you?
It's not rape if she was like, "well ok, whatever," Ellenna. That's bullshit. Don't put those kinds of ideas in her head.
So you broke up or he did? He doesn't appear to realize what breaking up means.