My bf cheated on me 3 yrs ago and it still bugs me like fuck, iin?

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My bf whom I've dated for 3 years now cheated on me a few months after we got together( I just found out a few days ago) he seems remorseful about it sorda but I dunnnoe, I'm still reallly bugged in a way! Like, it keeps coming back to me and like the girl he "dated" behind my back isn't pretty to be honest ( not being mean here lol, just being honest) but she's not ugly put it that way lol- anw yeah so I found out a few days back and it's still on my mind, like I love him and we spoke about it ,he knows precisely how I feel but I'm just scared now .... Like I feel I. Was a fool for 6 months who didn't know A THING!!! And I'm scared it happens again ! What do you guys think I should do????

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    If you still love him, and he still loves you, then it will get better as time passes. But you normal to feel this way right now! Work on the trust issues or you two are going nowhere! Good luck with your choices

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  • PrincessLollipop
    12 years ago

    I wouldn't be able to be with someone who cheated on me. Especially if it was more then one time ( a period of 6 months!!?).

    I'm not trying to be mean, but I believe in "once a cheater always a cheater".

    You shouldn't give a guy a chance to hurt you again! :(

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  • Aleks85
    12 years ago

    Dump him. I mean he did stick his meat in another woman's hot box. You deserve to be pissed.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    12 years ago

    @Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    He stopped after six months if m not wrong and he told me he realised It was wrong after he made out with her and tt I'm " the one" !!
    Yeah he said ummm..he said he was scared to lose me tts why he couldn't telll me!! Which pisses me off, cos in the first place he why in the blue hell did he do it if he knew he didn't wanna lose me!!! Guys are just fucked in the head at times, it's not even a joke! And if ur a guy, my apologies lol!

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    well you just found out so naturally you'll be mad

    The questions to ask
    - why did he wait so long to confess
    - is he still cheating?

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    12 years ago

    @princesslollipop
    Here's what happened, he had something going n with her when I went to UK and when I came back my friend sorda told me about it and We spoke about it and I told him he was gonnna have to choose and shit and he "chose" me but he was still talking to her behind my back !!! He ut her under another name and I found out again! Gave him another chance!!!! Then he was seen in town or something by one of my school mates and she told me about it and he pleaded with me not to leave him, again I was a fuckin retrd and stayed!!! And I asked him if he Made ut with her and u know he looked me right in the fucking eye ball and said " I promise I didn't cheat on you" and just e other day I was chatting g to an old friend whom I used to like and he told me he was seen AGAIN round the same time with her and that's when I sorda brought the past up with him and I found ut yeah he cheated on me !!!

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  • YngPoly
    12 years ago

    Personally I will never understand monogamy.

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  • moomus
    12 years ago

    It took you this long to find out? Personally of dump his ass.....

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