My best friends is engaged and only now do we finally sleep together

After I've finally caught my uncatchable fish and thought I was happy as a clam I looked to my best friends facebook to see how he was. I realized he's now engaged to the girl he's been dating for sometime now. It's been a while since we talked so I invited him to sushi dinner, my treat. We had an awesome time catching up and shared or significant other stories.
Our relationship was always very forward and we had no problems with touching each other. We used to give each other massages and could stay up all night hanging out without anything coming of it. We never ever hit any of the bases so to speak. We thought this to be hilarious but were definitely aware of or sexual tension just never acted on it.
We picked up some beers and bought a couple movies and went back to his place to hang. By maybe 3am I found myself pinned against the wall in a lock with his mouth. We had amazing sex...until 6. He called out of work and we slept for three hours and woke up and kept it going.
I know we should feel bad but we don't. He's engaged and we however spoken for both are very clearly in love. We've not ignored the topic by any means but have only fueled itfurther in every way possible. What should I do?

Let him be. 145
Ask him not to get married. 182
Propose to leave town with me 31
Drop our friendship 40
Keep going with it. 159
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Comments ( 19 )
  • Hmmaybe

    If he cheated on her with you, when he was actually engaged to her, how can you trust him to be fairthful?

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    • goodkid

      We've known each other for a very very long time.

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      • ciloneto

        If you know him this long, is one of the two:

        1) He always cheat, and you know that
        2) First time cheating and you don't know him that well

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      • tomga1

        just letting you know that is possibly one of the most beautiful things i'v ever heard. But seriously he must be freaking the fuck out.

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  • CarsGirlsGunsMoneyMade

    Wait a minute: "After I've finally caught my uncatchable fish and thought I was happy as a clam..."

    Are you married or something?

    I can't think of anything to do until I figure that out.

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  • TheTodd11

    it will get boring, bang a few more times.. Get it out of your system and move on.. Don't be that couple that breaks hearts and then breaks eachothers heart.. Never ends well!!!

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    • tiffunny5

      Brilliant !!

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  • LooksLikeLove

    Sounds hot you should keep it going!

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  • different92

    I think it's kind of mean of you to have sex with somebody else's guy.
    You have no idea how that might break her. It sucks.
    But anyway i read somewhere that men cheat because they just can, they get bored sometimes and bla bla bla.
    The both of you are mature and i can see are cool with this so i guess its fine that you got the sex out of the way.
    Now move on with your lives and keep being friends.

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  • shuggy-chan

    damn...idk, just damn

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    • hemper

      lol this ^

      but because I am answering your needs not the other girls, lemme ask you. Do you see yourself in the other girls shoes? could you marry him and livve happily? if you can't than don't go ruining other people's happiness. if you can than perhaps...

      and this is also not only your decision but also his, and if you do love him you will respect what he want. so waht does he want? you should know since u guys haven't been avoiding the topic... or maybe he's just as confused as you are... in that case i really don't know

      best of luck!! i hope you are will be happy either way :)

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      • goodkid

        Thanks for your input. She's truly a lovely girl. I think if I could be happy with anyone for my days it would surely be him. We have the same humor and stark sarcasm.I always knew I loved him but never knew it could be to that level. More like a friend. It's difficult got me to address that I think it would be the best idea eve if he called it off butI just don't think I can ask that of him. I can only hope he does that on his own accord. I can hope by numbers. 15% of engagements are called off. then it jumps to 41% for divorce. I'm sure that makes me terrible but I don't know.

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  • veggie86

    You're both trash.

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  • ladyfergz253

    *Already, and *Fairytale

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  • ladyfergz253

    Watch my bestfriends wedding if you haven't alreay. You're on some fairytail type shit. Thats not normal! LOL

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  • treemong66

    You need to find out exactly what he wants out of this. A lot of guys will cheat just to have sex, but maybe he feels the way you do. If its just lust then it needs to stop

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  • poopey-eyeball

    SEX, LUST, FANTASY, and LOVE.....Dont women understand the difference?????????????

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  • BlueAlice

    What you three need to consider is a Berger-Blomkvistr situation

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    • goodkid

      You make a valid point.

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