My best friend wants to have sex with me?

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Last night me and my friend stayed over at his house and we talked for over 3 hours about our relationships finally at 3am
we went to bed the next day he asked me if i wanted to have sex with him i said why are you crazy that night we went to the pub and got drunk when we came back to his house he asked me do you want to have sex and i said maybe then we went bed.
The next day at 8pm he asked do you want to have sex now?
i said yes but tomorrow and we went to bed the next day i drove home and he called me and said when are we gonna have sex i said never and hung up and that night i started to have feelings about him is this normal?

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  • pala
    12 years ago

    And they say romance is dead.

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  • TerryVie
    12 years ago

    well.

    i'd say at first it was just sudden hornyness from his part, thinking that you could also be "best friends" with benefits...why not?

    The thing is: While the first question may have been a "shot into the blue", the second, when drunk, was probably really hornyness speaking, and thats when YOU made mistakes.

    You said "maybe" and got his hopes up. As in "i could imagine doing that, you got me to think on this, and ya, if i am horny, that could happen". So with hopes up, he spends the day, and when he gets horny, he asks again, and you tell him "tomorrow". As in "yeah, i am done thinking, it's fine, we will try having friendly sex with no strings attached, but not tonight, i'm not feeling well/on my period/sleepy/...but ya, tomorrow we will have sex".

    It's like, you reinforced his desire, and wonder why he bugs you about it? Naturally you _WERE_ thinking about this, in the back of your head. The responsible thing to do would EITHER go back on what you said, and apologize for encouraging him without having an intent on going through with it, OR to go ahead and try having sex with him.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      okay

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  • Justin1015
    12 years ago

    So you had sex with him, and now you are having feeling for you, but from what i see, he is thinking with his penis, find out wether he likes you for you, or because you have a vagina

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      i didnt have sex with him.

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      • Justin1015
        12 years ago

        mkay, but it still seems like this guy just gots a bonner for you,

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          12 years ago

          mkay?

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          • Justin1015
            12 years ago

            all he wants is sex, you can try dating him, like making out, just dont give him sex right away,

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