My best friend's girl...

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Okay, so Ive been friends with my best friend for about 10 years. His girlfriend hangs out with us all the time, which I have no problem with whatsoever. But her and I have spent time together, just the two of us, a few times now and I think I'm falling for her. We do absoulutely nothing but hang out as friends. No one is cheating at all. She is amazing in almost every way though and we actually agree about more than her and my best friend do. I love my best friend like my own brother and I'd never want to hurt him. What do I do? Is this normal?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    never hurt your bro for a girl. never.

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  • a_blonde_paradox
    13 years ago

    You need to take a step back away from spending so my time with your boy's girlfriend. You've already crossed the line by hanging out with her when he isn't around. The more you do it, the further your emotions will go. Since you're so far into it, I'd say you need to think about your friend. How would YOU feel if your best friend was hanging out with your girlfriend and falling in love with her? Would you trust him to be around her alone?

    NEVER hurt your boy for a girl.

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  • AbnormalGuy
    14 years ago

    you can hang out with her and all, but just dont go too far. Even if she tells you: "I like you more than [your best friend]." Even then you should be like: "You shouldn't be saying that kinda stuff." Or you shouldn't show in any way that you like her back.. there are enough girls out there... don't be a dick to your friend

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    it might be common. after all, you and your friend have been pals for 10 years, so you probably are on the "same page" about alot of things, including what is attractive in a girl.

    that being said, you will devistate your friend if you allow it to go further.

    if you value your friendship, then prioritize it and make yourself unavailable to spending any time with her without your best friend.

    and get a girlfriend of your own.

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  • Scully
    13 years ago

    I'm in the same situation but I'm the girlfriend..

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Have a threesome. JK.

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  • weshitude
    14 years ago

    well is it worth losing your best friend? i don't think so. take some distance from this girl or find yourself a girlfriend so you could double date or have foursomes or whatever

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  • hotchickie81
    14 years ago

    Be verrrrry careful!!! You don't want to lsoe your best friend over a girl!! Think about it... you and her end up dating for a bit, then you guys break up, and you and your friend hate eachother... then you are left with nothing. I'd be more concerned about your friendship, if it means a lot to you.

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  • YOURaFREAK
    14 years ago

    Take her in the the back room get your bone!

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  • modestyblaze
    14 years ago

    If its not broken don't fix it. It sounds like you got a great friend. he's got a great girl friend. you get on with them both which equal two great friends. STOP DON'T FIX IT.
    Most people struggle to get this far in genuine relationships. maybe your just struggling to come to terms with agape love. Its the love we all secretly as humans want, rarely get and when we get it don't no what to do with it. We think we have to have sex with it and that is the last thing we need to do. Agape love is innocent like a child keep it that way between friends.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    seen it, heard it, saw it.. IT'S COMPLETELY NORMAL! but maybe you 3 should take about it and i dunno i never had a relationship XD

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