My best friend is online ?

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I've always struggled making friends and never really found people I click with in the real world. I came to a site and clicked with someone like I always wanted, after a while I found myself with a best friend like I'd never had but always wanted. Trouble is I don't have much in real life. I don't focus everything into online, I go out and try and be active but she's always there, she's the first and last person I message or chat with, I don't really care about anyone in the real world, when she's busy or not around I feel like life maybe isn't worth it. When she's away for a week it hurts a lot, when and if we argue it kills me and my head spins. We plan to meet up, and that will be great, but I'm just starting to feel it, like I'll never find anyone like this woman again. I don't wanna find anyone like this, and what if I somehow lose her ? Then what?

Are these feelings normal for someone online ?

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  • Cymbalism
    8 years ago

    The best friend I have ever made is someone I've only ever known online, so I definitely can relate.

    I don't think it's strange at all to become very close to someone online. Honestly, it feels a lot easier to hold a conversation. Awkward pauses are less awkward and it's easier to be bold enough to actually say what you want to say when you're not face-to-face with somebody. It can lead to something very fulfilling.

    It sounds like right now you have very strong, euphoric feelings for her. This might lead to a romantic relationship, although whether it does or not, I wouldn't say that it will be impossible for you to ever meet someone like her again. Your social skills will only improve as you get older, and when you open up, you can connect with lots of great people. :)

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  • Rainbowbash
    8 years ago

    Just don't over analyze your situations, or arguments, a'ight? if anything, it's best to be yourself, I KNOW, I KNOW, but it actually does work XD

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    Sounds like love.

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