My best friend has changed a lot

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I've known her for almost 10 years now, and we've always been very close but I'm just getting tired of how she is.. I feel awful for saying this about her but I really hope she realizes how much she has changed.. First of all she uses people to get what she wants. Knowing that our college summer school was going to be $800 she asked a lady for money since she knows and RARELY even hangs out with her daughter at school. Her daughter happens to be sort of odd kinda of girl so she isolates herself at school and is always quiet, but since my best friend knows her family has a lot of money, she asked her mom to pay for her summer school, asks for rides to parties and only invites the ladies daughter because she needs a ride, and contact lenses... I forgot to mention that my best friend or now ex best friend is 18 years old and she is more than able to get a job which she keeps on saying she has tried, but to be honest she hasn't done ****. She will get qualified for fafsa during the summer but hasn't done anything to claim it or know her process.. NOTHING! Why? Because she knows since that lady already payed it she doesn't care. .. And the best part is that she won't pay the lady back at all. ... I can't stand how she is.. I don't want people to think I'm the same way.... She never has money cuz it's only her and her grandma but I mean if you want a better future and be able to afford stuff you need to have the initiative and get a job, and her grandma is 100% heathy. I have a job and struggle to pay bills at home since my mom is disabled and berly makes enough.
She also changes her tone to sound like a little girl when she asks people for things, I think it's too immature. When guys txt her she'll say out loud, " OMG Steven is so funny and will burst out laughing for now reason.. And she'll keep on doing it till somebody asks her what she's laughing about. She always leads guys on to thinking she'll sleep with them, just so she can get some attention. I honestly want to spend some time without her but I have her for all my classes and summer classes :( what should I do?

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  • Shelbs
    9 years ago

    Hey, so I think you should try to distance yourself from her. People change and drift apart all the time. It's normal. So you don't have to feel bad about walking away. Maybe if you do, she will take time to look at herself or maybe she will just blame you. Self-righteous people tend to do that and she sounds like she is.

    You should be more concerned about you picking up parts of her personality by continuing to hang out with her than people thinking you're like her. people will probably just not understand why someone like you is friends with someone like her. But if you keep spending mass amounts of time with a toxic person then you too may start to think like her. Personality is mostly genetic, but those genes are influenced by the environment/outside world.

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  • poon_jabber
    9 years ago

    get drunk and eat her pussy into oblivion.. it'll shed new light on the situation

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  • fullhouse
    9 years ago

    I think you're just jealous of how easy she's got. Not a bad thing though! We despise those people have better conditions n still don't use them. My advice is, be a good friend n ignore this. She'll realise her attitude is wrong in future but it's not your business.

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  • perfectxsilence
    9 years ago

    Uh, sounds like you're both taking completely different paths in life. I was best friends with two people and I ended both of the friendships as they both changed. I dropped one at 16 years old and the other at 18 and don't regret a thing about it. They were really messed up individuals and took the wrong path. It's a shame that we drift apart from people but it does happen and it truly is for the best. If I was with them, who knows what I'd end up like. They were annoying to bits, immature and they really knew how to wind me up. I have friends still but they aren't like those and didn't know me nearly as long but that doesn't matter much to me. Sure, I'm not as close to anyone right now but my fiancé came into my life and he is also my best friend.

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