My best friend and my boyfriend.

So. lately i've been noticing that. basically without meaning to i treat my boyfriend like a best friend and my best (guy) friend like a boyfriend. AND vice versa. and i wonder if ive just got it mixed up and if maybe that i do have feelings for them both, but the opposite ones. is this normal? ...and how should i deal with it? somebody please help me.

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Based on 36 votes (17 yes)
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  • shogun

    Have a three sum

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  • randomguy21

    Settle for one guy/boy friend. Don't be an indecisive idiot.

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  • bazwell

    If you do feel that you are treating one like you would like to treat the other, then you need to take some time away from both to decide on what you really want. In this situation, you would be exploiting and manipulating them both if you did anything different.

    I recommend that you think about how you feel in their individual company, and how you see your relationship developing with each of them further in the future. Then act on this as respectfully and honestly as you can.

    best of luck!

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  • Maybe you need a break from them both.

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  • Senken

    BE BOLD

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