My 16 year old son owns a butt plug

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The other day, I was doing laundry. I went into my sixteen year old son's room to put it away and saw that one of his drawers was open. In it, was a buttplug. I know my son masturbates and looks at porn and I'm okay with it as long as he's neat and doesn't do it in front of me. But I don't honestly know if I'm okay with this. I doubt he's gay (even if he was I'd be fine with it) because he has a girlfriend that he loves dearly. What should I do? Should I confront him about it? Should I leave it alone (It meaning the subject, not the thing in the drawer)?

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Avant-Garde

9 years ago | pl

Be glad and proud that he had sense to get himself a proper anal toy, instead of using a random object that could've gotten stuck up his intestinal track! Or, would you have not felt embarrassment in taking him to the hospital so it could be removed?

If you're okay with him masturbating, why can't you extend the tolerance over to his butt plug or, is it because the kinky lifestyle weirds you out? Leave it where you found it and don't bring it up. Pretend that you never saw it.

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- Yankeepoint
  
  7 years ago
  
  Gosh, I agree with this! When I was young, I put EVERYTHING up my ass. I wasn't aware there even were anal toys. If I would have discovered butt plugs as a teen, it would have been pleasing.
  
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dirtybirdy

9 years ago | pl

Butt out.

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Arm0se

9 years ago | pl

putting stuff in his ass doesn't make him gay >.>

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  i know it isn't and even if he was gay id be okay with it
  
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  - Gspyder
    
    9 years ago
    
    Then calm down and leave him be. He's a teenage guy, he is going to have a sex life
    
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Mytwin295

9 years ago

As long as he doesn't harm himself or anyone else, its none of your butt wax to be pickin at.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  clever
  
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dinz

9 years ago

I would probably just leave the entire subject where it belongs, back in his drawer. It seems you are fine with him masturbating and as long as it is harmless I see no qualms in my opinion to be concerned about it.

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johnho

9 years ago

I wish I knew about butt plugs when I was 16.

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NormalIsAsNormalDoes

9 years ago

Best to let him live his life undisturbed because he is not harming anyone.

Also, I hope you realise that a lot of the commenters are joking. I am not joking though.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  Yeah I know, I try to play along
  
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Freedom_

9 years ago

He probably just got it as a gift from his girlfriend or some other friend, tried it once and left it there, maybe even used it for pranks. I wouldn't worry about it and I see no point in making him uncomfortable about it until he hits his mid twenties or so - if it were me I'd bring it up then for a laugh.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  I shudder to think what kind of pranks one could pull with such a thing
  
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  - Freedom_
    
    9 years ago
    
    Leaving it in an open drawer so your mom thinks you wear a but plug!haha!
    
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RoseIsabella

9 years ago

Maybe his girlfriend has a strap on in her drawer or maybe in her drawers?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  PLEASE don't put that image in my head
  
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Darkoil

9 years ago

He may use it with his girl. Give him a high five from me next time you see him.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  Umm... No
  
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analsexonly

7 years ago

Leave him be, there's nothing wrong with it—whether he's gay or straight, men can really enjoy anal stimulation—and it's part of his private life that's hurting no one.

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Fish1973m

9 years ago

I'm a straight male and when I masturbate I use a butt plug and vibrator on my ass, it's great everybody should try it

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  i've never tried it. i might now, though
  
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  - Fish1973m
    
    9 years ago
    
    I did it last night and it's the best feeling ever, specially when you cum , give it a go and let me know how you get on
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      Well I'm not gonna use my son's but I'll look into it
      
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      - Fish1973m
        
        9 years ago
        
        You will love it, use plenty of lube :))
        
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GreyWulfen

9 years ago

I would really not be concerned about it. Everyone has their kinks and as long as he uses his toys responsibly there shouldn't be any problems. Close this drawer in your mind and pretend it never happened.

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Cucco

9 years ago

What he does with his or his girlfriend's ass is his business.

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mystery7

9 years ago

Mention it (with photos) at his 21st birthday party, embarrass him in front of all his friends... for a laugh! Just kidding.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  I wouldn't do that
  
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  - mystery7
    
    9 years ago
    
    That's why I said, "Just kidding"
    
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Jawsx1

9 years ago

He may be experimenting, most likely with his girlfriend, I don't know we're you stand with sex but it might be a good thing he finds out what his preferences are before he goes off into the real world, better with someone he knows then to learn with a stranger.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  Him and I have had "the talk" and I explained to him that I'd rather he didn't have sex but trying to stop him would be more trouble than it's worth. As long as he uses a condom, I wont
  
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anti-hero

9 years ago

Beat him in and about the face with it.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  I don't believe in hitting my kid unless he REALLY deserves it
  
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junky

9 years ago

You should use it. Sounds like it might help.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  You're a sad sick individual
  
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  - peterrabbyt
    
    9 years ago
    
    He is right, shove it up your stupid ass you cunt!
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      Don't need to. Unlike you, i actually get some
      
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