Mutual understanding or not ?

Why? She's a married woman, just leave it

From a moral point of view, it's not something I would do. Perpetrating this level of damage to anyone is bad enough, but a spouse?

From a purely selfish point of view, most studies say that men are (a) more likely to own up to infidelity (b) more likely to get caught.

Either way, you're playing with fire.

if she's married, dont do it. its a very very wrong thing to do. tell her no way cause your married and I dont want to do anything against that

i sounds like your worried about lossing your inocent exciment that you naturly crave as a guy if your happy with your wife in the long run though... youll probebly regreat taking this girl up on this.

That's stupid she wants to ruin your life with ur family and be with u forever if u fall for that trap u want it too go for it

Does this happen to people often? Probably more than you think. It also usually ended in disaster, broken families, friendships, and the like. Time to call it quits and just be friends before one of you gets hurt, loses something important, or looses thier job.

Lol some people are so hopeful and naive. Speaking as someone who has been cheated on and never strayed, I can confidently say anybody who cheats whether they be married or not is doing so because of a terrible relationship.

Maybe this woman's husband doesn't love her anymore, or is a selfish uncaring man. People don't cheat when they are happy in a relationship, when I was cheated on it was because the relationship was dying. I was certainly not the best boyfriend in the world by then and we has no passion anymore.

I'm not saying it's a positive thing to break apart her family, but if she is so unhappy that she is cheating for three years or more; perhaps her family life isn't the most positive thing in the world either. If you really love her and know in you're heart that you're better for her then let her know how you feel, and if not then still tell her how you feel before she makes any big mistakes.

She is married what else is there too it. Explain to her that she has a husband and should be devoted to him, don't ruin your life's or you friendship. It's either you or the husband.

Stop and think for a minute. How would you feel if your wife had been fucking someone behind your back every week for the last three years? Your selfishness will ultimately ruin the lives of others including the children of both families. Not only this, you could never have a serious relationship with this person because, if you two got together, you would never be able to trust her. She's cheated on her current husband so what's to stop her doing it to you if you become her [artner one day. Value what you have and stop seeking adventures that will only end in tears. You're just thinking with your cock - use your head (the bigger one)
"The softest pillow you can ever have is a clear conscience".

It's harder for women to stay emotionally detached. She's thinking that after 3 years together it's time you two progressed - as you seem to get on so well. She may be using you as her excape route out of her family life.

You're either in it for the long haul or it's time to stick your gearstick into reverse!!

I only hope that she doesn't turn into a psycho eg. Fatal Attraction film.

Just keep the fucking too yourselves and uh, go to church.

Adulterer!