Moving away

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I'm 17, I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years. I love him to death, and I don't want to lose him, but I'm about to move to Boston, and dance with the Boston Ballet for the next few years. He said he'll drop everything and come with me...but the fact that'd he move away from his family and his job just to be with me scares me, I don't want him to make that sacrafice, but I don't want to break up either. .is it normal to have mixed feelings like this? Or should I just go with it, and let him move with me?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    As hard as it is to say, you have to calculate the future with only yourself in mind. People come and go. I really wouldn't let him do this.

    What if you two break up? Then he's left in a city where he doesn't know anybody; probably heart broken.

    If you love him, you'll let him go. He'll find another.

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    You need to discuss this with him after giving more thought. You should already have a five year plan and know if he is in it! If not, good luck with your choices!

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