Motivation to give oral sex

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What is your MAIN reason for giving oral sex to your partner?
-YOUR OWN PLEASURE while performing oral sex (e.g. the feeling you have when their genitals are in your mouth, smell and taste, giving oral sex is sexually arousing to you in itself...) OR
-PARTNER´S PLEASURE (e.g. you like to please them, their reactions to your activity, it makes you feel desired, you want to show acceptance of their body, you do it as a reward for something else, you want to be their best partner, you cannot refuse or do not want to deny them...)

I am male - my own pleasure while giving oral sex is the main reason 5
I am male - my partner´s pleasure is the main reason 16
I am male - I do not like giving oral sex 0
I am female - my own pleasure while giving oral sex is the main reason 5
I am female - my partner´s pleasure is the main reason 5
I am female - I do not like giving oral sex 2
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  • anti-hero
    11 years ago

    Both.

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    • shade_ilmaendu
      11 years ago

      There should totally be an option for both. I like doing it because it gets them off, and it just so happens to turn me on a shitload at the same time.

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      • anti-hero
        11 years ago

        ^hear, hear!

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          11 years ago

          I hoped that people would be able to understand why there is "MAIN (capital letters) reason" in the first sentence of the original post... I´m sorry that you can´t get it.

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          • anti-hero
            11 years ago

            Okay, that's fine but what if the MAIN reason is equal? I just told you what I think. You don't have to be a motherfucker about it.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              11 years ago

              I´m not a motherfucker about anything. Definitely not about your one word or two words which you use in your simplistic comments.

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        11 years ago

        In your case it would be appropriate to choose "partner´s pleasure". As you write "...because it gets them off..." and if you read the instructions in the original post, you can see something like "their reactions to your activity" under the option "partner´s pleasure".

        I apologize that I have not included the option "both" - it was my intention not to include it for the purposes of this poll. You know, (almost) everybody wants to sound cool and they would choose "both". I wondered exactly about this: how would people decide if they had to choose just between two positive categories plus one negative. Sorry, this was one of the purposes of my question. But thanks for commenting and sharing your thoughts.

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    Mine his hers theirs everyone's pleasure is pleasing giving and receiving

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    • NoraBaker
      11 years ago

      Hahahahahahaha.

      Very inspired underappreciated comment. Made me laugh so hard on. :O

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      • dirtybirdy
        11 years ago

        I speak only the truth, orally of course

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        • NoraBaker
          11 years ago

          As do I. I wouldn't would will won't lie lay with for on under to you and everyone, orally hourly anally or annually.

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          • dirtybirdy
            11 years ago

            Are you....trying to........ask me something??? Cus...I'm down for....ya know......thingsss.....oh, you...you were just telling me something. Ohhhh my bad! Good thing I don't get embarrassed!

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            • NoraBaker
              11 years ago

              Mmm... You're the dirtiestbirdiest I know! ^.~

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I would say depending upon how I feel about the person, their pleasure would be the real motivation, if I didnt overall care about them it would be because I expect it to be returned to me.

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  • DannyKanes
    11 years ago

    My partners pleasure ;)

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