Most men are not sexually attractive to me

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I am 100% straight female, not lesbian or even bisexual. I am not asexual either.

However, I have a very hard time finding a man to whom I feel PHYSICALLY attracted and he makes me have sexual thoughts and feelings towards him.I need to feel a ''fire'' between us. Otherwise I can't sleep with a man even if he is the greatest man alive and has done great deeds. I will simply make him my friend. I want to DESIRE a man first.

This happens very rarely, maybe once every 2,3,4 or even 5 years. Therefore I am usually single and celibate. I haven't had sex in many years because NONE of the men I have met during this period have made me feel sexually attracted to them, lust for them, and I can't just have sex with a man who gets along with me and has an amicable personality, and good manners but can't get me EXCITED. I don't want a friend, I want a LOVER and he must have BOTH the looks that turn me on and don't make me feel appalled (which is what most men's looks make me feel) and the compatible personality.

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  • januarycurse
    8 years ago

    I think this is more normal than most women are willing to admit.

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    • [Old Memory]
      8 years ago

      Clearly not, otherwise most women wouldn't be having sex just like this person isn't.

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    • wistfulmaiden
      8 years ago

      I don't find many sexually attractive men. Even good looking men are not ways sexy.

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      • sandraasiilva
        8 years ago

        I agree. I know what you mean!

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  • green_boogers
    8 years ago

    So you want a lover for yourself. But, you don't really want to BE a lover for a guy. Right?

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