Most guys are attracted to me but no one really want me as a gf?

So I've always been told that I am cute, pretty, have a sweet voice, have interesting character (a little bit of feisty), BUT NO GUYS sincerely wants me as a gf!
Say, recently one guy friend broke up with his gf, he started flirting with me and asking me out. I was sure that there must be some sort of magnetic attraction during our last date. But eventually he still got a patch back with his gf and we are back to being normal friends again.

I don't understand why such situations happen SO MUCH. Guys broke up with their gfs, start flirting or confessing their infatuations with me, then get back to their gfs again.

Is it really normal? I'm not ugly or weird but I never had a bf (I'm 20) before

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Based on 54 votes (36 yes)
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Comments ( 11 )
  • Gixie

    Dont go clubbing to meet blokes. I met my gf in a supermarket, she worked there and our paths often crossed. One day just as a psssing comment i askef her out for a drink and we've been seeing eachother ever since. Take your time and the better things will come to you.

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  • Stifler

    Normal.

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  • ToTellYouTheTruth

    People put too much emphasis on obtaining a bf/gf.. a half person looking for another half to fulfill them. I come from the very bottom and have personally experienced the entire spectrum from rejection to selection. If you really want a bf worthwhile you need to stop lowering yourself as if to be only an option with crossed fingers. The day you turn this intention toward yourself.. to love accept and be.. with or without external approval, is the day you won't be able to keep them off you with a stick. Not yet having someone to break you down and tarnish or question your fabric could work to your advantage. Achieve overflowing self fullness and you can be the chooser rather that someone else's mere chose. Best wishes

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  • weinereater

    Friend zone is key. Im an ugly bastard but every girl/woman I have ever really wanted in my life I have got. Get in the friend zone and hang around them as much as possible until they get to know you for who you really are. People who just broke up are bad choices to go after. Trust me on that, ive learned it the hard way myself a few times.

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  • wrongirlgitsreal

    wow nice story

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  • karmasAbich

    You will meet the right guy. all of my ex GF that were turning into serious relationships moved away. So I kind of know how you feel.
    You'll meet the right person and he will love your innocence. I know I would.
    I only get girls that are a little more experienced than I, and i don't like it. Haha my point is, the guy will come when you least expect it.

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  • brainssexathlete101

    Don't let men take advantage of your innocence, because if given the chance, many will. For your own good, you should talk to a slightly older, married or experienced woman about men, and she can enlighten you about a few things about us, and how to avoid some pain, like heartbreak. Ever heard the saying, no men, no pain, know men, know pain?

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  • richgg

    I have never had a gf, ive always wanted to feel that love but i just cant have a gf because i think theres something wrong with me just dont know what

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  • joybird

    Be selective and don't accept other people's rejects.

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  • Pisslan616

    Isn't that called the rebound?

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  • ygrowup

    Lots of time yet for you to find the special one! Good luck with your choices

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