Mom uses my money to buy stuff for herself, iin?

It really annoys me. I asked her to return a few shoes for me.

She comes back later that night, and as I knew she would, with new shoes for herself. She lent herself $92 from my money.

I think I am more annoyed with the fact that she's the type that thinks she's entitled to money that isn't hers. Reminds me of when I was 16. I made 1200 on some modeling gig and she threw a (legit) temper tantrum, demanding half of my money. I was like -_- 'bitch, you serious'?

She's going to pay me back, I'm sure. I am unsettled by people like her. Did I mention she is a welfare parasite? In the face of late-stage Lyme disease, she suggested that I get on disability? [I had to drop out of college. uninsured.] I was like 'fuck is wrong with you?? why is that the first thing you think of'? I don't know if I said it, but I definitely thought it.

Anyway, would you be pissed if someone spent your money? Even a relatively small amount?

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Comments ( 26 )
  • Avant-Garde

    I'd be furious if someone did that to me! What she's doing isn't normal that woman is using you. Are you absolutely sure she'll pay you back? Because if not, I'm sure you could take some form of legal action against her.

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    • she paid me back but earlier this month I gave her 400 because she had NO money. I caught her talking wild smack about me a few days later. I was like -_- really, "with my money in your wallet??". Then she started calling me a fucking bitch.

      -_-

      lol update

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    • No, she will. It's just baffling to me that she thinks that perfectly okay?

      I expected her to do that...

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  • valisque

    Firstly do not listen to kelili, noopiepo and especially drugsrbadmkay..

    last time i checked to borrow something, one had to ask first. And as far as the 1 200 goes, you earned it. Shoulda been your choice to lend it or not. Judging by the looks of things, that is anything but a responsible parent.
    What kind of woman sacrifices her own child's education anyways? That's their entire future right there... gone.

    Oh and btw its a parents duty to provide for the child, that's your birth right. You don't owe them a cent until you got a proper foot hold on your own life, and your own paper. Then you can pay them back.

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    • I didn't give her half of my modeling gig money. hahaha. No way, that was the first time I had so much---ever. When I was 8 or 9,I actually saved up 5/6 hundred. She convinced me to let her hold on to it, in her wallet, so that the money "is safe". I never saw that shit again. It took me forever to save that.

      That's the kind of person she is...She's obsessed with money she doesn't have. If she would have simply asked me first, I probably would have let her keep the entire sum of the returned items.

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  • misssolodolo

    I don't think you should be mad at your mom for spending your money. It's not like she's a stranger like she gave birth to you. For at least some of your life she fully supported you financially. I'm pretty sure you can handle her borrowing a little bit I your money just imagine where you would be is she hadn't spent some of he money on you...

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    • some of us don't love our mothers? what happens then?

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  • KacyWatson

    Theft

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  • NayasBeauty

    ooh that's a no no on both your parts. Not sure how you view parents entitlements so I will say I'm a little old fashioned on parents entitlements to our stuff however she knows what she did was wrong and shouldn't take advantage of you. You can't be mad at her completely because as you said you knew she would so you shouldn't have trusted her with your cash! Trust her to be the mom you know and loathe, I mean love, and realize she can't be trusted with your money! lol you'll look back and laugh at her antics when she's gone one day regaling friends with tales of being heir to the Food Stamp Queen's thrown.

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  • Mazlow

    Wtf? she shouted at u.... for winning your own prize money and then took $600? look i think that says it all. this mom has issues.
    that's yo green for crying the f* out loud!

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    • She didn't take it but she had a MASSIVE hysterical meltdown. I wrote a comment above with slightly more detail.

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      • Mazlow

        Ah, okay... I take "most" of that back

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  • Gallieon

    I'm with this dude above me. that is one messed up mom. damn

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  • alison2000

    I don't think it's normal, it's should be other way around, you borrowing money from her - but as long as she hands it back, don't see an issue.

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  • kelili

    And all the money she spent taking care of you from when you were a baby until you were old enough to make your money?? Aren't you a little selfish plus she's your mom.

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    • she also spent time in a mental institution and compared me to vile animals every chance she got. Will I be compensated for the trauma? no.

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      • kelili

        Okay

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Do you pay for your own food?

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    • yes?

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      • Terence_the_viking

        That's just wrong don't let her take your money.

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      • valisque

        LMFAO! What a Troll!!

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        • ? Are you defective

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          • valisque

            It was funny... Sue me.

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  • drugsrbadmkay

    Wow you really are an entitled little a-hole aren't you? Maybe have some respect for the woman who brought you in to this world.

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    • And what if she isn't a respectable woman? What then?

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  • Crayphor

    Wow that's what happens when u give your mom money in Pokemon

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