Mixed feelings about the boyfriend

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I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over 2 years, we've broken up a couple times, but never for more then like a week. Our relationship has been kind of rocky in my perspective, but he thinks we're perfect for eachother.

These past couple years I've had mixed feelings about our relationship, every year it seems like our relationship gets better and better, but i go back and forth on how I feel. Somedays I feel like I cant live without him, but other days I just want him to go away forever.

is it normal to have mixed feelings like this in a relationship?

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  • Faceless
    12 years ago

    I think your human. Good job.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Of course it's normal, but I'd decide if I were you- you wouldn't want to regret your descicion 10 years down the road..

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  • Audacia
    12 years ago

    You're a woman, you're indecisive, it's normal. Just don't go on about how you keep changing your mind to this guy because he'll find it annoying and it won't do you guys any good. Weigh up the pro's and con's of being together, if it's about equal then wait until something happens that alters the balance so you 100% know the right thing to do.

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  • NothingxCrazy
    12 years ago

    If it's causing you stress, it's good to talk it out. Talk to a friend about what is making you so iffy with this guy. Then talk about the good. I'm sure there are more good times than bad especially if your relationship is getting better with time.

    Just don't fool yourself. If you come to the point where you are convinced this relationship isn't healthy for you, don't tell yourself it's just a phase and you'll change your mind in a few days. You have to know what is real and what isn't.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I have friend in who's going through the same thing. Your name wouldn't happen to be Janeatte would it? All I can say is that you should talk to your boyfriend. If you want it to work then you have to be willing to put in the effort.

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