Missing my other half

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I've been best friends with him for 5 years, and we've been dating for a while now and we're engaged. I can't help crying when i think of how much i miss him. I don't want to do anything, homework, go to work ( but i do force myself to do the bare minimum). I am my own person, i don't rely on him to complete my personality or anything, its just since we've started dating i don't feel complete unless he is by my side. Am i overreacting, or is this another symptom of love? This is the first relationship I've been in where it actually caused me emotional pain to be away from my significant other.

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  • Geneva5
    10 years ago

    How big is his dick ?

    Divide that by 1245.432 and that is how many wizard points you have scored.

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  • lamartin
    13 years ago

    I know what you feel believe me, what the reason make you guys lose each other. I have been suffering with my boyfriend or even should i say ex-boyfriend now for ever, and we always come back to each other, and then we leave after a fight. Just be strong and wait for him to call you. If he loves you he will. If you feel that you need to hear his voice, just call him and be honest...

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Doesn't sound all that healthy to me, actually. More like you have lost part of yourself in this other person. No - I don't think that is love.

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    • digitalbroken
      14 years ago

      That doesn't seem to make much sense. Just because there is an emptiness inside that he seems to fill when he is around her, does not mean she has lost anything of herself to him.

      It seems more likely she's suppressing her own individual feelings and emotions because she feels happier with him. So when he is not there, there is nothing else to fill that void.

      How could anyone but you claim whether or not that is true love? I submit that they cannot.

      Everyone experiences love differently, everyone experiences separation differently and with different levels of anxiety.

      Perhaps simply carving out some personal time for your own hobbies and ambitions without him being right next to you could help. It's just a matter of overcoming the sadness/anxiety you're feeling long enough to get past that stage.

      When did you go from best friends to dating/engaged? Perhaps it is still the temporary infatuation that seems to ensue with new or renewed feelings for someone, and you just need to give it time.

      Just some thoughts; I do not claim to know the best answer, but I feel for you.

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  • themancan
    14 years ago

    U ARE MENTAL

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Hate how girls get so fucking clingy you gone for 5 min come back they like freakin meltdown oh I missed you so much I never wanna be apart from you again cry cry cry

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